Should I get breast implants?

Question

My boyfriend says he will pay for me to get breast implants next year. I am uneasy about this however because my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer last year and lost her left breast. I have never seriously considered breast implants until now even though I think I would they make me more proportionate (I am an A cup but a size 6 on the bottom). I do not judge women who get implants and I have always felt that women my size (A cup and smaller) are entitled to getting implants. However, I don't know how I would feel knowing that they are fake. Thanks!

Answer 1

You don't need new breasts; you need a new boyfriend.

Answer 2

Well if your Mom previously was diagnosed with breast cancer there is a pretty good chance you might get breat cancer as well. So you don't want to be putting anything new into your body that may make your body attack it. Im an A cup and a six on the bottom, so I know where your coming from. I would never get implants I love my boobies way too much, and If my boyfriend ever told me that he'd pay for me to get implants, Id be like how about you pay for you to get a new personality implanted. You should be comfortable with what and who you are, and if he doesn't love you for your WHOLE you, then let him go, and wait for someone with some brains.

Answer 3

If I were you I would do some serious research on them first. Some women cannot adjust to them and have had serious side affects even today. I say keep what you got and be proud of them. When I heard the lab tech at the mammography center tell another women that she had to have each breast done twice, once as is.. and once with the implant moved all the way over, that was all i had to hear.. No thanks. More then a mouth full is a waste anyway.

Answer 4

Your boyfriend is not neccessarily wrong. Did he tell you you should get the implants or did he agree to pay for it because he knows how much your size bothers you?
I would talk to a cosmetic surgeon. Get a consultation. They would be qualified to tell you whether or not it is a health risk.
If you are not sure how you would feel knowing they are fake, then you might not really want the implants. You have to be sure that you would before any surgeon would do the surgery. If you do decide it is right for you and only have questions about the health risks, then go for the consultation.

Answer 5

Any time you put a foriegn material into your body you can expect to have long term problems/surgeries. I think thats stupid to get them, are you insecure? Who cares!!! So you got a couple pancake tities who cares thats how god made you. Yeah why be fake? Your boyfreind should love you for who you are. As a guy I dont judge a women by her her breast size theres alot of other things that are more imprtant ands that is mainly that she is not insecure and crazy. One day the sex will be terrible or non existent and its all about love then and personality. You will be wrinkly and saggin anyways and with implants more medical problems. Your just asking for medical problems. I wouldnt look at you any different having pancake titties I am more interested in the personality although I personaly dont like fatties.

Answer 6

I personally won't if my mother had breast cancer. But it's really up to you.. Just make sure you check all the facts- good and the bad. See if it can increase your change of cancer.... ect....

Also go to SEVERAL doctors- so many people are dying and getting sick from bad implants. Check out your doctor make sure he's 100% legal and never had any problems. This is not the time to be shopping for the cheapest product!!!!

Answer 7

bottom line you have to do what you feel is right for you. if you are in any way uncomfortable with the idea then dont do it because you will only regret it later. I too, am an a cup and have toyed with the idea of breast implants but decided against it. just follow your gut. if you decide to go ahead and get themjust make sure you are getting them for you and not for your boyfriend.

Answer 8

everyone is entitled to get the implants and over all its' how you view them and if you want them!
I personaly don't think it's a good idea! Let people accept you for who you really are!
but then again i don't even wear make up.. that much! if it's a nice eveing i'll dress up but over all or everyday i don't feel the need to hide behind some colors! :) lol therefore i don't need to add something to my body to make someone else like me more! even my self! I'm an a cup as well! but i have that attitude don't like don't look! nothing is worth me going into a clinque or hospital to change my look!! not close to worth it!
Best of luck don't do it! :)

Answer 9

That's a personal choice and one you'll have to live with everyday, so make sure you want them for yourself before you do it. I have only seen a small number of breast enlargements that look natural. Almost all others look pretty bad from one angle or another and without maintenance over the years look even worse as you get older. If I were you, I wouldn't subject myself to possibly disfiguring surgery for a boyfriend. If he was your husband, maybe, but who's to say he'll be around later?

Answer 10

First get a mammogram and make sure you don't have any cysts, lumps or tumors.and when it comes up clean and healthy, then you make your OWN decision whether or not you want implants. Only you can make this decision. Your boyfriend, your friends, and us on yahoo answers cannot tell you what to do.

If you want bigger boobies, then go for it.

If you are happy being a lovely A cup, then keep them sweet lil' things and be happy with them! :-)

Good Luck, girl!

Answer 11

I think you just answered your own question; the most important one is "how do you feel about it"? My wife got them after we got married
and after an emergency hospital visit, she decided it wasn't worth it. If you have thin skin, a thin frame, a genetic history of cancer or small bone structure, it's not a good idea.. Busted capillaries are common, ruptures, pain, leakage, back problems.. I could go on..
Your personality HAS to be your selling point first; if he loves you, then he loves the real you. Tell him to get his penis enlarged first and see how he'd feel about it. If you get to a gym and chisel that body i know you'll both be satisfied and your ego and self-confidence will skyrocket!!