2006-11-29 01:13:37 · 10 answers · asked by pixie007 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
basically i was ill in hospital and he let his mate use my living room as a knocking shop i ain't happy and he can't see why. and he says i'm mad. well i know i'm a little crazy but its my home as well plus my kids.
2006-11-29 04:59:10 · update #1
You need to elaborate on this question. Is someone controling you? Are you the child or the spouse? Do you feel insecure other places? Were you violated in your home? Is this a new home? Wish I could help, but I dont understand fully the situation. You should NOT feel insecure in your own home, for any reason. That is the one place you should feel secure. Good luck.
2006-11-29 01:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by April was here 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel insecure because you are not getting the respect you want from your husband or man.
If you have been mentally ill, it does not mean you are mad, and he should not have called you that, he should be helping you make your recovery, if he is not doing so, then he is a burden, and it will take you longer to recover.
But you will recover, you can make your home feel secure again, make the changes you want to make, and look towards all the good things about where you are.
If your man doesn't support you in this, then he is not worthy of you.
2006-11-30 00:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sprinkle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need some tlc invite your freinds around for an evenign chat and drinks also you should pop into the doctor and tell how you feel - its okay to feel insecure sometimes you just need a bit of help and support.
2006-11-29 01:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because of all of the violence we see on the news. I mean every time you turn on the tv someone is being murdered or raped. But ya know what! You are not alone!!!!!!!!
Just go get some really good locks, a house alarm and that will make you feel better.
2006-11-29 01:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you feel your home has been violated - allowed by your partner. You need to shake this off by telling yourself you are back in control. Change the sofa and change the furniture around in the room.
2006-11-30 23:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you live alone or do you have someone there with you?....i too feel insecure in my home...only because of something that happened many years ago...i live on the ground floor now and at night i double check every door and lock before i go to bed...i sleep with the light on, and sometimes i have my partner come stay with me when i feel scared....this is because of what happened to me, has something happened to you and this is why your feeling insecure?, or are you not getting enough attention from someone in the house?....your not giving much for us to go on here darlin, can you specify why you feel insecure, we may be able to help then....bless you.....x
2006-11-29 01:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that a lot myself, there are a variety of reasons like I dont have many frineds and because my area is quite rough.
2006-11-29 01:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by nachomanhulk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you are feeling insecure about...
2006-11-29 01:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends wether someone is purposely making you feel like this
2006-11-29 01:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by sweets 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your neighborhood maybe?
2006-11-29 01:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋