2006-11-29 01:07:55 · 9 answers · asked by luckykom83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately egos are not allowed in a relationship. If your egos are clashing, then you are not giving enough to each other. Both partners must be willing to put egos aside for a relationship to work. A good relationship is one where one or both partners are willing to give more to one than they expect from the other. Sorry,. but true.
2006-11-29 01:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by April was here 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to demolish the ego of both the persons. Then only, good relation will persist between persons. In families, the bread winner generally has more ego than the other partner. If both are bread winners, highly educated one must realise the policy and try to understand for having no clashes.
2006-11-29 04:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by Naaree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the most important thing in a marriage is for both to understand that each one complements the other........this eliminates the requirement for competition and thus eliminating ego issues.......ego comes into the picture only if you are competing with one another..........but marriage is a relation where the entire purpose of your existance should be for the other......i know it is easier said than done.......but next time when your spouse does something better than you just appreciate it and infact learn from the other how to make things better..... respect each others achivements.........and in times of crisis just remember communication would be the best solution....always think your spouse to be your best friend and confidant.....
2006-11-29 01:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Egos don't have a place in a true relationship. Either you have your egos or a relationship. Sharing and caring, adjustments and accommodations is the name of the game in a surviving relationship.
2006-11-29 02:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
compromise is the key. of course i'm talking about a middler way that would satisfy both of you as much as possible. or compromise in the sense that on one occasion one of you gives in and next time the other one gives in. it's not fair for either of you to give in all the time and make concessions. in this way there is a sort of equality of opportunity as well and harmony is established.
love and marriage take time and patience to work well. good luck
2006-11-29 04:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by monica06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have disagreements all the time on things and we are learning to talk them out, rather than keep disagreeing. If you disagree on things, so what? The meaning behind all this is how you work them out together. You have to learn each other and grow with each other, not apart.
2006-11-29 01:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your fights 'issue-based' Don't let fights on one issue affect your whole life with your partner.
and you cannot always get your own way out, don't try to win over your partner by being dominant, because then it will be a no-win situation.
and remember to patch-up every time you fight, don't fight and go to sleep....then you are more likely to fight in the morning too.
2006-11-29 01:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy like a T.V. Viewer till she/he completes her reasoning and then explain your point and then decide the best.
2006-11-29 17:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by BHARANI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be silent and listen what your partener says-
may pl explain your point of view when your partener is cool and in good mood-
pl note
no two people can think/talk/behave alike--
pl try to put your legs in their shoes and understand others point of view -
2006-11-29 02:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋