She is a junior here. she has been having problems in life, especially with her dating situation. she gets upset at her roommates for something that she did or when someone else did. and then, she leaves everything of hers on the floor and us roommates have to pick up after her. and lastly, she's really touchy on the subject of guys. like is asked before, "what should i do?"
2006-11-29 00:59:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her you understand she is having a hard time right now but it is trickling down and that you are uncomfortable with that. Ask her to be considerate in a calm way and tell her that you will try to support her but it has to go both ways.
2006-11-29 01:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by trancin_gal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, start taking her cloths and other crap she just leaves lying around and put it in a box in a closet. That way when she starts to run out of cloths she will have to ask someone what has happened to her clothing. When she does tell her where all her stuff is and that the next time that you or anyone else has to pick up anything behind her you are not going to just put it in a box, you are going to throw it out and that you are not going to live like that and that you are not her maid. As far as her person problems, the only thing i can tell you is to just ignore her and when she asked what's wrong, tell her she is and explain to her that you really do not want to here it if all she can do is complain all the time. If these methods do not work, ask her to find another place to stay. Good luck.
2006-11-29 02:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by golden rider 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, stop picking up after her! She may be hurting in ways you do not know so maybe you and your roommates could all sit down for a heart to heart talk.
It's always difficult to live with many females under one roof but I feel you owe it to all of you to try and work this out peacefully.
2006-11-29 01:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would sit down and try talking to her, maybe you can help her out in the guy field...after you get past that then confront her about the other annoying things she does and just be straight with her please pick up you stuff up outta the floor because were tired of doing it for you and not gonna anymore...if that dont work....try speaking to whomever assigns rooms and maybe see if you can get her switched with someone else
2006-11-29 01:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her and explain to her what is going on. Tell her that there are somethings that she does that bothers you. It doesn't hurt to just tell her the truth. Maybe she doesn't like guys and she is trying to slowly get her life together and explore other opions. Just explain to her that she needs to really work on thing because they are getting on your nerves.
2006-11-29 01:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie Cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you get another roommate? Talk to the person in charge of the dorms!
2006-11-29 01:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get another room mate. If that does not work, lay down some ground rules and get your friends to back you up so it does not seem like you hate her.
2006-11-29 01:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by zaitsev_v1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fart on her. do not pick up her clothes. leave them outside if she scatters them.
if she asks if you guys have a problem, tell the truth.
her problems should not affect other people.
2006-11-29 01:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Bananananana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start throwing her stuff in a garbage bag and when its full say all this **** is yours and u gotta pick it up or one of us has a living problem...dont ever live with a pig..
2006-11-29 01:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by lovealways0223 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a maid and send HER the bill.
Ignore her and she'll eventually ask what the problem is.
2006-11-29 01:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋