My husband loves me so much he kisses me before we leave for work each morning and tells me he loves me even when i make him late for whatever reason. I feel like in the luckiest woman on the face of this earth and I dont understand why you people on here have so many marital problems. Why dont you just work 200% on your marraige like we do, not 50-50 100-100 and you will have less problems. Throw your pride and your stubborness to the side and you will love your partner more than you will ever know like I do. My husband is so perfect he even helps me with the housework and still does the outside work to and has held a good job for 12 years. Guess all i have to say is im the luckiest woman on the face of the earth have a good day people!!!
2006-11-29 00:58:53 · 25 answers · asked by Chrissy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Baby your so special i am the lucky one, no we both are the lucky one's
2006-11-29 01:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by mustang64093gt 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes you are lucky. I have been married three times in a 25 year period. My first marriage lasted 2 1/2 years and the breakup was my fault, but it left me a friend of my ex-wife and a 24 year old son that i am very proud of. My second marriage lasted 11 years and I hope I never see her again. She was a 2 timer and a lier. My third marriage lasted 9 years and was a mutually agreed breakup. We both had our problems, and I could not make enough money to pay for all of her medical expences, due to the fact she was disabled.Imade too much money for her to get help from the government, so we separated and divorced. I am single now and have no intentions of marrying an time soon, although I am dating and have found a wonderful women and think a lot of her, I had told her that I would not get married for quite a while before we started really seeing each other and she understood that, so if marriage comes up, I "WILL" remind her of it. My problem in all three cases is that I rushed into it too fast and i think that is probably what happens a lot of the time. People don't work out all of their differences before they get married and then once they are in the marriage they begin to learn things about their spouse that they disagree or simply do not like about them and it starts conflicks. If i marry again, i will make sure that I know that person inside and out beforehand. Oh, by the way, my third wife and I are also still friends. We email back and forth all the time.
2006-11-29 09:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by golden rider 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your family is truly blessed and inspirational.
It is not easy to have a great marriage, but I know they exist.
It is near impossible to find a suitable person to marry (half the battle) and much more difficult to maintain a marriage.
Some people would think that marriage is effortless, that you and your partner will agree on everything and life is grand. I agree with you that marriage takes work, but I do understand why others have marital problems---wrong person, wrong attitude, wrong expectations about what marriage is and a thousand other reasons.
Hopefully, someone will read your post and be inspired.
2006-11-29 09:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by tbonz 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your one of the luckiest.....I am blessed as well to have a wonderful marriage. Like you I have a wonderful husband. Just remember no one is perfect. Congratulations to you too.
In defense of some of the folks who write and have concerns about their marriage on yahoo.....perhaps this is their only outlet at this time. Perhaps they need alittle reasurrance that its ok, or advice on counseling centers or abuse shelters. Also there is fear that If they speak to a friend....it will get back to their spouse.
Also people for some reason not disclosed in their questions have a fear of communicating with their spouses.
Sure, there are immature answers given here...but those I feel need to be overlooked.....they have not experienced situations...and its just two points for them....but please don't be too quick to judge. Some of these people write from their heart.
2006-11-29 09:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by samantha H 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not every guy is wonderful like your husband. There are lazy ones, selfish ones, cheating ones, abusive ones, etc. If every guy was like your husband more women would be willing to work 200% of the time to keep him happy. Vice Versa for men. That's like the rich saying, "I'm wealthy and I can buy anything I want, why isn't everyone else rich too?" Circumstances honey. I sincerely hope you remain happy for all of your years but please don't expect the rest of the world to be perfect just because your life is.
2006-11-29 09:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as a perfect man so you need to stop saying that there is only one perfect man that walked the earth. Also there is no such thing as a perfect marriage. You shouldn't come up here putting other people down but instead look at your marriage a little better it might not be as perfect as you think.
2006-11-29 12:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by mom of 2 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah. Certainly you are the luckiest woman on earth.
2006-11-29 09:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by apple87guy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Lucky you! You must be a newly wed. We all start that way, but unfortunately, sometimes s--t happens & things change....that's life!
Anyway, don't listen to all the negatives. There are many couples that are happily married for life, even if they're not always kissing & hugging....they are soulmates. You'll probably be one of those. congratulations!
2006-11-29 09:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well, i think, if ur happy with ur marriage, then ur the luckiest person on this earth. u should start advising people 'bout their problems & then c, u'll become even happier!!
2006-11-29 09:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by sahana 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you have your head buried in the sand, either that or you are not being honest. If your marriage is so perfect, than why would you even have to work at it at all? Working at it means there are some things that need fixing. Admit it, nobodies marriage is perfect, not even yours.
2006-11-29 09:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Great. Self-adulation is a huge sign of insecurity and need of recognition. If you are truly happy, then you don't need to advertise it and judge those who aren't happy. Generalizing is of ignorants.
Humbble up and be grateful for your relationship, be compasionate of those who don't have the same luck.
2006-11-29 09:26:36 · answer #11 · answered by Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋