im in a new skool where i dunno any1
i have been there for like 4 months and i didnt make any friends...
they think im inferior just because of the fact that i sit alone and dnt have any friends.......
and that believe is wt stops me from talking and being myself
is that normal ???
if it wasnt wt should i do to get along with them ?
and get my respect back...
2006-11-29 00:54:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell them a funny joke, get them laughin, that'll do the trick....make sure the joke is good though
2006-11-29 00:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by toughtimes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know anyone, then how do you know they see you as inferior? What makes you think you can gain respect back that you may have never had in the first place? Hmmmm.........
Sounds like you are putting yourself through the ringer. Just be personable, don't kiss a**, just be more approachable. Maybe the fact that you think no one respects you shows somehow and makes you unapproachable.
2006-11-29 09:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a new school you need to earn other's respect, not get it back. These people don't know you, the more quiet and reserved you are the more people will avoid you. Be yourself, sit with new people at lunch, talk to strangers in the hallway, help someone out, get in a group. Just be confident and others will recognize you are someone they would want to know. Smile at people, speak out, get noticed!
2006-11-29 08:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had switched schools in between 10th and 11th grades. I also had a hard time because everyone already had their clicks. But eventually I found a few good people that didn't care about what others thought. Good luck and hang in there.
2006-11-29 08:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Brina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever it takes, Son. They are just human being like you. They are not tigers, bears or other beasts those can kill and eat you if you do wrong things to them. Try to talk with them. If they don't react well, whatever, just live by yourself and try to find others to talk. I think among all your friends in class, there are good people who can be your friends.
Nobody perfect, Son. So, don't be shy. Everybody has done false and even embarrass things in his/her life before, but he/she will not talk about it with everyone.
Keep try, OK.
2006-11-29 09:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sould look for every occasion to talk to them..I was like that three years ago.Now not..everything is normal and av a lot of friends...If you are shy 'i was'..or think that they would laugh at you Just give them wity advice and compliments...Be smart and confident of yourself...Go for it..You are no less than them...but am sure...SPECIAL IN YOUR OWN WAY...There must be some who'll really like you.
2006-11-29 10:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Barbiegal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sitting alone, sit with other students at lunch, and start interacting with them. You can't make friends if you won't talk to anyone. Good luck!
2006-11-29 08:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by making small conversations whenever you can.. people love compliments, just a simple sentence like "you look great in this shirt" is nice. But remember to be sincere and real..
2006-11-29 08:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by serene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, it's perfectly normal .... i no u r concerned so just look 4 some1 who hasn't made any friends either and b friendly 2 that person or try 2 find some1 who is really ur kind and try 2 b friends with him .....it always works 4 me!!!:)
2006-11-29 08:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by Sandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Socialize with others, so that they dont consider you an outcast. But rather that you're friendly and wish to make friends with others.
2006-11-29 08:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋