Me and my fiance have been together for 7 yrs. We have talked about getting married, but nothing has came out of it yet. It seems like everytime we get into an arguement and he knows he's wrong is when he brings it up. What do I do to get it done? I'm 33 yrs old and never been married. He is 42 and has been married twice.. uggh.... i'm getting frustrated!!!
2006-11-29 00:35:29 · 8 answers · asked by Indymom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is probably afraid of making it legal because of the crap he went through with the other gals.
If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. No piece of legal paperwork is going to make the relationship better, if anything it makes it more stressful. Been there, done that.
2006-11-29 00:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Te be married all you have to do is leave him and find a guy who wants to get married. After 7 yrs at 42 he would either already have married you or he doesn't really want to. If you give him an altematum and then he 'gives in' then your marriage won't last. There is not way to make someone marry you.There is not good way to make someone marry you becasue the person should want to do it on his own. (that means proposing and setting a date all within a couple of years at the most--unless you are quite young) He can say anything he wants but the fact remains, its been 7 years and nothing has happened. You are young, move one. It may be hard but its necessary. I can't count how many times I have seen a man date a woman for years before finally they get married and guess what--they get divorced.
If you want to be married then leave him and find someone worthy of you. Someone who, after you both fall in love, would love to marry you, not after years of fighting.
Painful as it is, just leave.
2006-11-29 00:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by artimis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly after relationship a girl bartender for terribly nearly 2 years, i'd could decline. i'm an afternoon walker with a 9 to 5 and we merely in no way had plenty time jointly. Friday and Saturday nights have been given lonely. to no longer point out on our few days off jointly she'd sleep to a million pm. And yet another problem human beings don't understand is whilst they get use to that existence it particularly is particularly no longer common to get them to choose to alter it. i wanted her out of the marketplace because of the fact I felt that it had no authentic destiny, and that i did no longer choose to work out her bartending at 40. shes 29 now. She loves bartending and that's the place she desires to stay. i think of maximum men throughout the time of the honeymoon portion of a courting will take care of it, yet after a jointly because it starts off to harass them. In my case desiring something extra effective for her merely pushed her away. i've got confidence sooner or later she will understand that that isn't something maximum human beings do a profession for a reason. So... would I marry a bartender. provided that she had something else she exchange into training in existence.
2016-10-04 12:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not interested in getting married again. Either accept that you're just going to live together, or end the relationship and find someone that wants the same things you want. Good luck!
2006-11-29 00:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bad formula... Age 42... Married twice already... which equates to divorced twice already... Has lived comfortably in this relationship for 7 years... I seriously don't think he will take the next step... it's leaving his comfort zone... and he's not likely to go willingly... You may have to rethink your future and what you want... You may have to leave knowing it may be for good... It will let you know his true deep seeded feelings for you... either good or bad... It's a decision you have to make...
2006-11-29 01:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it he does not want to get married, he just did not want to be with out you
2006-11-29 00:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does not want to get married.....take the pressure off enjoy each other marriage is not necessary
2006-11-29 00:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to tell him that its very important to you and put your foot down either he agrees are you need to make up our mind you can deal with this
2006-11-29 00:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋