I've been in love with a person for 5 years,I still love him ,but he doesn't want me anymore,and I still find myself thinking about him,I'm asking myself if I loved him so much Or I'm not able to find someone else and to fall in love again
2006-11-29 00:14:55 · 16 answers · asked by honey 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
1 or 2 weeks it will take to forget this person... dont be so sad... time refreshes everything ,,and even it takes much time,, it can repair any broken heart wounds....
2006-11-29 00:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't ever forget someone you really love but over time, when you see less of them, you think of them less often and it becomes easier to open up to someone else. When you fall in love with a new person, you'll be so wrapped up in them you won't have time to think about the first one. You can't put a time limit on it as everyone's different but if you stop worrying so much about how you should be feeling and let things take there natural course, it might be a little easier.
2006-11-29 00:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin,
I don't know how long it takes to forget a loved one. I lost my baby brother over a year ago, and I'm still in rage and anxiety for his loss. He was a really great guy and I cannot understand what happened. I question so many things..."why God would let this happen? Why do people always forget and move on? Do the dead live in another existence? Do they just go to sleep?" And there are many more questions. I look to various religions but they always confuse me with different opinions. I've come to think that existence is just in the mind. Perhaps, we are in the mind of someone greater than ourselves. Moving on, is important because we know, they would move on if we were gone. Life life and let the rest take care of itself!
2006-11-29 01:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by dumdiddie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of person you are. If you are too sensitive, you might still think if him and miss him even if you find someone else. But if you are strong-willed and make the decision that since he doesn't want to be with you there's no point in thinking about him, you will forget about him and move on. It might take a while, especially if he meant much to you.
2006-11-29 00:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by AmethystLexi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take 240 days, 30 hours and 5 second. If it weren't only that easy. Look, take is easy and do not be so hard on yourself, as it is not easy to forget someone with whom you have shared 5 years. It took me about a year to get over a 3 year relationship. The key is to take it easy with the morning proces, and to really deal with it and get over the person. One day - it is a cliche, I know - you will wake u, meet a great person you will fall head over heels in love with. Wanmna bet?
2006-11-29 00:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by MM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of we ever ignore someone we've fairly loved...yet we do bypass from an area of adoration to an area of being grateful for the love we experienced with them and accepting 'that' love now no longer has a carry on us. I communicate from journey - we've an equipped in survival mechanism which operates to save us probability-free - our emotions will be unfavorable - despite the indisputable fact that the survival area in us accepts the information in time. relying on how the different human being has dealt with us...if we were blessed with a significant different who has been truthful with us, the healing procedure will be speedy - - yet when we've had a significant different who hasn't been totally truthful with us, the healing procedure will be very lengthy and far better painful. I perceive with what posters 'biscuits' and 'Glen' shared.
2016-10-07 23:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard place to be in. Being rejected, when you love someone. But If he doesnt love you after 5 years of a "crush, love" then He isnt the one for you. Ive been there, but if you keep hanging on to him, then you wont have any place to allow other people to love.
Let the guy go, and move on.
2006-11-29 00:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear I feel so sorry for you, I lost my loved one through death which is final, coming to terms with that took me 7 years, but your loved one my dear is very much alive which in many ways is worse. try and accept what has happened, when you finally accept the situation you will be able to move on. you will find someone else to love and better stil he love you in return, isn't that something to aim for, be positive you deserve the best. good luck.
2006-11-29 03:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing, me & my ex were togehter for 2 years & he dumped me.
it usually takes 1/3 of the time that you were in love to get over them. hide all of the things that yuo had that remind you of him. it's gonna be hard, but just focus on having a good time with your friends & being happy. after a while, you are going to find someone who really loves you, & wants to spend the rest of his life with you. but it's gonna take time, but eventually he will come to you. but don't go out and find a new boyfriend right off, he will find you. think positive, and don't eat ice cream out of the box, sure it makes you feel better, but it's not healthy. good luck & i hope that you feel better.
2006-11-29 00:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lindseyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forever, why? because you can't stop loving him and you know
what ? ,True love doesn't have a happy ending, becos ,true love
doesn't have an end. So pls try as much as posible to put him behind you ,so as to moved forward.
2006-11-29 00:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by loveth_ekanem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋