what are u and arent u willing to put up with??
in terms of behavior, appearance...etc
2006-11-29 00:05:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I neve settle anymore, I deserve my own "perfect" man so therefore I have standards and if they don't meet them they are kicked to the curb. Every one is different and have their own idealistic perfect man, but I don't put up with rudeness (as if their mothers didn't teach them how to respect ladies), abuse (pysical or emotional), and if something bothers me about them I tell them straight up and if they are not willing to change, I'm on to the next. I had to learn how to speak up and not settle for less, everyone deserves to have what they want... speak your mind...
2006-11-29 00:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What I'm not willing to put up with is abusive behavior, abusive language, an unkept appearance, unemployement , and instability.
What I will put up with is, a caring spirit, someone who makes me laugh, a clean appearance, and belief in Jesus.
2006-11-29 08:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've put up with a lot of crap in the name of love. Now that the object of that love is gone, I understand how unhealthy it was and will never do it again no matter how much I care for someone. Sacrificing my own happiness for the sake of another turned out to be a huge mistake.
2006-11-29 09:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am putting up with a lot right now. My man is in prison, has been for 3 years. I have put up with his ex, his moodiness, EVERYTHING!! It has been a very rough ride, but he gets out in 2 months. I am not willing to put up with someone telling me what to do and trying to change my beliefs to suit theirs.
2006-11-29 08:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by 81% Naughty, 19% Nice 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
love is unconditional: so when you love someone - you might HOPE that some things about them will change (like dress sense :) but LOVE means that you will love them for ever EVEN IF NOTHING changes. hectic. BUT some things should not be put up with: abuse etc because letting someone get away with that doesnt mean you love them - it means he / she has issues and if you loved them you'd MAKE them sort them out- or leave them to show its unacceptable behaviour
2006-11-29 08:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when i luv someone, i dnt find anything gross abt him.. he looks gorgeous even if he hasnt taken a shower 4d whole day (but dnt ever expect me 2 kiss him w/o brushing his teeth)... no way im gonna do that... lol
in terms of behavior, i can be patient & understanding 4 as long as i can but im just a human & like everyone else, i have my limits
when it goes beyond d limits then im done!
2006-11-29 08:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes love can be a strange road, You have to but up with somethings to a limit, as long as they are not to offensive, I have never seen or heard of anyone being perfect
2006-11-29 08:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by powerjets 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can put up with a lot of things like farting (which he loves), falling a sleep while I'm talking to him,him checking out girls while he's out with me (some times i also join in, and it becomes really fun then).
what i won't put up with is lying, cheating and mental as well as physical abuse. (and i know i don't have to worry about these things)
2006-11-29 08:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by Piggy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I love a woman, I will do something about my bad tempered. Cause I don't like to quarrel.
2006-11-29 08:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You deal with the good and bad, its called compromising. But you don't deal with abusive ****.
2006-11-29 08:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by X's Mommy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋