hiya i am so worried i went for a scan last night and i found out i was 5 weeks pregnant
they told me i had an irregular gestational sac and that there was no fetal pole , yolk or heartbeat
i thought this mite of been due to it been too early
they rang me and told me to come in thursday for a blood test to see if the pregnancy was continuing
i am so worried as i dont want to loose it ?
can any1 help please xx
thanxs x
2006-11-28 23:02:42 · 12 answers · asked by sara2007 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You can't normally see a heartbeat till you are 7 weeks gone anyway, but the fetal pole and sac is a bit worrying.
It could be that you got pregnant and then progress just stopped, this can happen, it's unfortunate but it does happen.
Try not to worry to much till Thursday, they will do a blood test and test to see if you are still making pregnancy hormones, this is a sign that the pregnancy is continuing.
It could just be that your less that 5weeks pregnant and this is why it's not so detectable as yet.
There's nothing noone can say to make the worry go away at the moment babe, you are just gonna have to sit this one out and wait n' see. If you get any spotting in the meantime, goto straight to A&E
Look after yourself
x
2006-11-28 23:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am no doctor but you must prepare for the worst. Until you know something for sure, I would try doing a lot of laying down with your feet elevated above your heart. Avoid real hot baths, eat healthy, Meditate and pray. If you do Miscarry Try to understand that everything happen as for a reason and that god has a plan. Maybe now is not your time. So you ask why would he even let you get pregnant in the first place. That I can't answer but I can tell you this. I lost my mother, the man I was madly in love with and had to quite my college due to money. I was left alone in this world I felt. I was also told I couldn't have kids due to things that happened when I was young. So here I was one night severely down and one of my biggest problems was that I couldn't have children. What was my purpose in life I thought. Long story short I I went crazy and cut myself on my arms, wrist, and throat. I passed out from exhaustion. When I woke up a few hours later I was in terrible pain and was now bleeding heavily from another spot. Someone rushed me to the hospital where I found out that I was pregnant and miscarrying. Instead of it upsetting me more it gave me hope. I knew then that I could get pregnant. God was letting me know that to give me hope but was also saying now is not the time.
2006-11-28 23:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by tinymight78 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm afraid there is nothing anyone can directly do to help you, you are in a very unfair situation and is just a reminder that life isn't always fair. All you can do is be strong for yourself and family. Wait for the test results but try not to worry too much as this can put you under unnecessary stress, which isn't good for you or the baby. Try and place yourself around your family and friends, just people who love you so you can feel loved so maybe you don't dwell on it too much. My heart goes out to you. best of luck. xxx
2006-11-28 23:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
although you do not want to loose this baby you can not "force" it to live... it is really hard loosing a baby that you really wanted due to curcumstances like this...i know what it feels like because i lost mine due to the fact that my boyfriend abused me...but if there is no sign of live or a heartbeat it is better to face reality and move on before it is to late because if you don't accept it you won't be able to love your "first" child the way your supposed to.
I'm now 17, my 1st child is 2 and he makes it better but you first have to make peace with yourself about your situation.best of luck
2006-11-28 23:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to relax its easy for everybody to say but if you get stressed the baby will to. All you can do is wait untill thursday to see what they say. Hopefully you have a supportive partner or family around you. I wish you all the luck.
2006-11-28 23:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by nicola t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry :(...You know tho in your heart that if something is seriously wrong with your baby, that things happen for a reason...I lost one at 22 weeks. I will hope for the best for you and the wee one. Good luck and let us know, formed in a question of coarse....
2006-11-28 23:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and don't get too stressed about it. There is nothing you can do. usually if someone looses a fetus that early it is for a reason. Maybe it just wasn't forming right and it's your bodies way of letting it go.
Just follow what your doctor wants you to do......
2006-11-28 23:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes, only a doctor can help. If you are serious, please stop asking this sort of question here because people will copy your question and than paste into google or yahoo and find out information and than paste it here...........Just for 10 points !!! And you need much more than stupid advises !! Don't let them confuse you...!!
2006-11-28 23:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey it really doesnt sound to good.....ive had 2 miscarriages and the 1st was pretty similar but in saying that i wish you all the best .....sendin love xx
2006-11-28 23:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what will be, will be. I say prepare yourself for the worst so if anything better happens than the worst, it will be a blessing. Your life is already mapped out for you by him upstairs, you cant control it i am afraid. God is a comfort at times like this i reckon. My friends baby is in icu,i am using this same conception to help her get through her troubling time too. I so hope everything will work out for you and you are blessed with what you want.
I will pray for you anyway. Goodluck x
2006-11-28 23:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by london lady 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋