my cousin is tall,slim,sexy,flawless skin,good looking,like fashion model,very nice and shes a very good wife w/ 3 children 3,5& 8,but her husband bfore getting marry her, has 2 girlfriend my cousin,and the other girl,but he choose my cousin,and when they already married,he cheated twice,why he do this to her?why he hurting the feeling of my cousin if he loves her?
2006-11-28 22:58:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No one will look out if he had what he want inside.
I think he had a need that your cousin can't satisfy him in one or more areas so he was looking for that outside his house .
I was there and if you need more information ps me .
2006-11-28 23:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he still immature and insensible to be someone husband and also because he knew your cousin is deeply in love with him and would not ever leave him no matter how many mistakes he had made, she will still remain at his side!
If your cousin doesn't mind at all, we outsider can't do or advise anything because she is the one who is suffering and living with such irresponsible spouse.
Unless your cousin has woke up one day and has make up her mind to leave and divorce, then he will start learning his lesson and will be repented. However, by that time everything will be TOO LATE.
Tell your cousin, she needs to do something before her marriage break or worst situation that her husband will secretly marry someone else who doesn't mind to be his 2nd wife.
2006-11-29 07:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His cheating has nothing to do with your cousins beauty and niceness. This man is just a cheater, and he won't change. He probably does love her, but he has a problem. Did she know he had another girlfriend before marrying? If so then WHY???
2006-11-29 07:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are a moody person and get angry with everything your man says or does then u need to forget because a man loves a woman who loving,open hearted,funny and that can make him happy at all times and be there when he needs her the most through bad,though and sad times of his life thats why who are like that they man don't cheat on them.The moment u're like that he finds someone who will be like that.
2006-11-29 07:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infidelity is a pattern of behavior that seeks self-satisfaction at the expense of commitment to another. It strikes at the core defining characteristics of marriage.
Infidelity may signal a person’s dissatisfaction with themselves, rather than their partner. They may want to feel different or be different. Although dissatisfaction with partner or yourself are major causes, there are others who engage in an affair or infidelity purely for the sex just to have fun. He may love your cousinh but he is selfish and love fun too.
2006-11-29 07:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm very sorry for what's happening to your cousin, but the only person who can answer why he's cheating is the man himself. tell your cousin about it and tell her to confront him. he may come up with so many reasons. if their marriage was destined to work, they should see a marriage counselor. if not, well there's nothing anyone can do.
2006-11-29 07:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by bibi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question before yours is a guy asking what to do because he cheated on his wife, is that your cousin? :)
2006-11-29 07:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by miss voe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you seriously need to consider taking a writing class. That was horrible.
2006-11-29 07:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by LaRue0715 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many mistakes in writting........almost every man cheats....
2006-11-29 07:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he can.
2006-11-29 07:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋