Sorry guys.... who r trying to find fun in it....
i am looking for a real answer
i still love her.... may be more than my life
but the thing is, i am responsible for my wife too
i cant dump on her... neither i can let my love in this situation
what i should do
do you think can i remain as a good friend of earlier love
would she take me in the regard
2006-11-28 21:50:40 · 6 answers · asked by He_man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, you ARE responsible for your wife, so what's the problem? Maybe I'm just thick headed, but I fail to see why you're having such a struggle with this situation. You're married. End of story. Your past gal is a widow. That's HER problem, NOT yours. I realize that some countries look at marriage differently, and that if you have been promised in marriage, that it can be just as binding as marriage is. So, it's possible that you are caught up in this kind of arrangement...yes? While I don't know of the legalities of other countries, I do know what my heart says. My heart says to be true to the one I gave my wedding vows to. Part of my wedding vow was to forsake all others and to cleave or cling to my husband. And I've done that for over 29 years, even though I could have gone off with one of my past loves. I do NOT think you should even be friends with this past love. It is way too tempting to the both of you, plus it's not fair for your wife. She didn't ask for this, and deserves all of you, not just the parts you are willing to share. <*)))><
2006-11-28 22:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still took VOWS and should be faithful to your wife. The ex's marital status should not make a difference in your marriage. You should have thought about this before marrying your wife. If you did not love her like the other woman you have done an injustice to her.
2006-11-28 22:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This is a real question? You want to ask others about maintaining a relationship with your wife and your mistress? I think you need to confess to your wife, beg for forgiveness, and live with the consequences. If she doesn't divorce you and suck 2/3 of your money, she'll never stop being hurt by what you're doing. I doubt that any of this is worth it.
2006-11-28 22:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by ScottyJae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r being selfish and immature love her more than life that is impossible....dam what to tell you hmmmm wake up to yourself.
2006-11-28 22:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are MARRIED!!!!!!
No question there. I
f you are a real man you forget all about woman number2.
2006-11-28 22:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife doesn't deserve an S.O.B like you. You married her loving someone else. WTF?
2006-11-28 21:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋