i need a girl's help?

Question

i am 14 years old and i am attracted towards my classmate named jyotsna. I want to make friendship with her but am afraid as her parents are very rich and narrow minded.i belong to middle income group.We are mostly partners in many school projects as we are the best artists of the class.So tell me,how should i impress her?

Answer 1

FOR FRIENDSHIP THERE IS NO NEED FOR RICH OR POOR. I THINKS YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT LOVE NOT FRIENDSHIP.

Answer 2

Well, I find it evident here that you two are already friends at the very least (I'm telling you this now because I've got a buddy just like yours and we're literally inseparable but not crushing on each other). If you really want to impress her, use art as a strong point. Whether you make some cute origami for yourself and offer some to her, or draw something really cool that she happens to see as nice and offer it to her, casually.

However, from personal experience, you might want to hang back just a little longer - little longer meaning a few weeks, or whatever you're comfortable with. I was 14 when I started my first [and only :D] relationship and it took a month or so to figure out whether my feelings were reciprocated or not. Since you two work together alright, take those opportunities to talk to her, find out more about her and see how at ease you two are together. Only after a while you might want to spring the question.

As for the parents...that's the way of the world, I'm afraid. I'm dating online and my parents are totally against it so I have to sneak around. If Jyotsna's open-mindedness is able to overcome the close-mindedness of her parents, and you two do end up loving each other, then that will be a future problem for both of you to consider. In the meantime all you'd be able to do is offer moral and emotional support.

Later days. :D

Answer 3

First, don't think of her parents and their status, it will discourage you. Second, the best way to start is by befriending her. Be nice to her, spend a lot of time with her and instead of buying her a lot of stuff, since you say you're both artists, why not make something for her, she'd appreciate that. Also, ask her to go out with you, to lunches, snacks, movies or whatever.

Answer 4

hi
you just mentioned that both of you are the best artists of the class, so why dont you use your skills to make her a beautiful and big card with lots of good things and specially, your feelings for her! nothing can be more special than a hand made card cos it shows that you've really worked hard to make the other person feel special and wanted!
all the best! :)!

Answer 5

don't feel inferior to her for any reason, just be yourself and try to help her whenever she needs help, to be there when she's happy or sad, in short prove you can be her best friend and she can trust you. you can also try to tell her that her friendship is important to you. be inspired in whatever you do together and let her see that she's your inspiration. ask for her opinion on artistic matters as often as you think it's ok. and since you're both artists, offer her a little something made by you just for her- find an occasion to offer it to her.
good luck

Answer 6

First of all, u r just 14 and u dnt think abt her parents are u guys are "FRIENDS", TO BE a friend u dnt need ur parents concern, so now be her good friend and if u r really intersted in her then try to get into her heart and then BINGO..... u can be together for ever....

Answer 7

Be yourself. If she isn't impressed by the person that you are, and seriously, why wouldn't he be, you're a good artist, and obviously an OK guy, they she'll never like you. If she needs you to act showy in order to attract her attention, which I'm sure she doesn't, she isn't worth your time, honestly.

Answer 8

You might not like my saying it but the truth is that you are living in a world of dreams. why are you bothered about her parents before even finding out about her fealings for her?

at 14 its natural for you to get attracted to girls. and i am sure your choice is very good. but plz dont be foolish and think about commitment at this age. your priority at this stage should be your studies, family, career and of course friends.

I suggest that you frist become that girl's friend and find out bout her fealing for you. at the same time dont let it distract you form your life's priosities. remeber that if tomorow you become succesfull in life then that girls parent might even ignore your family background. but if you waste your precious life after her now and she tells you she is not interested then your whole life will be wasted.

so plz there is nothing wrong in liking a girl but just remember to take one step at a time.

Answer 9

You have impressed her any way you are partners.

Stay cool, at this age the best way to go about it is to study hard , get good grades/marks, enjoy school activities.

There is time for every thing and very thing in its time.

Answer 10

U just don't think about her parents. R u sure ? Then go ahead & tell her directly. Because i think it's the best way. Be open-hearted & be brave. Don't afraid.

Answer 11

friendship doesn't deals with money. if you want to become someones friend you just need to have a good nature. don't worry about her parents, if she want to do friendship with you then she will definitely approve to it. it hardly matters what her parents say. i am sure that even her parents wont mind.you should have a good & honest heart & pure mind that's it.now go & enjoy your friendship.