I dated this girl when I was 16 and I gave my virginity to her. It has been 6 years since I last saw her. I know she got married with kids. A friend texted me tonight saying they saw her working at foodlion. Should I go try to see her at work? I would really like to but would that be too weird for her?
2006-11-28 21:24:38 · 3 answers · asked by rescuepanther 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It depends why you want to see her. If it's as a friend I can't see why that should be a problem for her. She has clearly moved on from the relationship. Assuming that you have to and you just want to see her to say Hi, how are you, then I doubt she will mind.
If however you haven't moved on, if you are thinking you might be able to rekindle your relationship, or if you have unresolved issues regarding the relationship then NO, walk away. It's not her problem. You need to work it out on your own.
2006-11-28 21:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well being that she's married with kids you need to recognize that she has moved on with her life and is unavailable. You may not receive a warm welcome but it mostly depends on how you left things when you parted ways. If you're intentions are simply to casually say hello as an old friend and see how she is doing in her life then I see nothing wrong with that. Sometimes it is nice seeing people from our past and knowing they are doing well and still have fond memories of the past.
2006-11-28 21:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by copper_eos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you aren't looking to win her back, i'm sure she'd be thrilled to see you! You know her better than I do, though.
2006-11-28 21:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by ;-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋