how to get confidence?

Question

i am entirely inferior about my self..
i was great in my school life..
i was the first (almost) in studies..
i am behind all... worst performance from me..
every one is hating me..
all thinking i am waste.
i am not able to concentrate on my job also..
what happend to me?
not able to learn anything in my life..
plz help

Answer 1

look i m not an expert or a pshycatrist just a common person !
u said u were great in school life , u were good at studies my dear tht means ur capable of doing things at their best u hav tht capability to make urself shine
good n bad things happen to all of us its true bad situations often overcome our good ones but to reverse it is our work isn't it ?
ur worst performance is bcoz there might be noone to see ur good qualities n encourage them
we all human beings hav one thing common i us n tht is feelings
dont know much abt ur life bt u might hav faced some probs. tht hav depressed u for a while n u r still in tht depression so my dear frnd
1. listen to ur heart , do wht u like , do everything to satisfy urself not to plz others bcoz others wil only b there when u wil b successful . hope u understand as u r going through same cond.!
2. wake up in morning smile once( even without a reason ) n then pray to god tht whatever happens todays u wil hav faith in god n rest leave evrything to god
i tel u even i m a very pessimistic bt i m telling u wht i hav really seen in my life n i m stil practicing it n i m happy
3.everyone hates you bcoz u hate ur self , isnt it?\
love urself smile without a reason bcoz everytime u smile a positive vibrations develop which wil automatically force everyone to like u .
4. nobody is waste so better keep tht thing off ur mind remember my dear wht u hav i u nobody else has it
so dear keep smiling , love urself n then u wil automaticaly see the change in u n others
its just a depression i can understand as i had gone through the same phase
i tel u something u hav learnt a lot frm those who hav never faced problems in their life bcoz u know how to restart ur life after a hell don't u now?
i might sound philosophical but my dear philosophies r written by a human like me or u only soooooooooo
smile after reading this answer
may u suceed in evry aspect
try to b what ur r bt b in a positive manner bcoz wht happens happens for the best

Answer 2

Don't be disappointed under any circumstances. Never think inferior to others. Try to regain the confidence by adopting the principles maintained by the great people. I suggest you to read the book on confidence written by the famous authors. The confidence is not a commodity that you can buy in the market. Always think in a positive manner. Getting confidence is in your hands.

Answer 3

You will never get confidence by putting yourself down. If you repeat something to yourself over and over you start to believe it and then you BECOME it so instead of being negative, reflect on the positives about yourself. Act like you're confident, even when you aren't.

For example, I've found that when I'm sad I pretend I'm happy. I smile and ACT happy, using a cheery tone, thinking happy thoughts and eventually I have no choice but to become it. You pre-occupy your mind with positive and the negative gets drowned out. But you really have to give full effort.

Don't give up before trying, try everything at least once, not worrying if you're gonna fail, just knowing that the goal is to TRY with everything you've got.

Good luck!

Answer 4

every morning meditate, say loudly 5 times 'I am the best'. Think positive, work hard and overcome your fears.
Low-esteem comes from fear...you can do one exercises - Write down your fears in a book, it could be any small thing like asking for change from the cab driver to speaking up in a group to having a rollercoaster ride....and one by one everyday try and do what you fear.
Only if you experience what you supposedly fear you will come to know it is not all that fearful.
Best of luck.

Answer 5

Look into the nearest mirror you can find and really really look at yourself. In the eye. It may be difficult but you must.

Now tell yourself bout the times you've conqured and succeeded. No one hates you, they're just a little more concerned about themselves and how they just might be a waste.

So love yourself. Because everyone else is just as unsure as you are, regardless whether they show it or not.

Answer 6

Sounds to me like depression. Get some help from a professional. Your probably just going through a rough patch. Good Luck.

Answer 7

Everyone is unique. You find out your talent and proceed towards it, you will be successful in your life. Pls stick postive wordings in your bed room and keep reading it in the morning as soon as you get up. That will give you energy to face everything.

Keep telling your heart that one freind is their for you always. That's me. Dress up well, that will give you 50% of confidence.

All the best.

Answer 8

self-confidence is something you have to earn for yourself. you learn from your mistakes, you stand firm on your decisions, you stand tall despite all odds, you set your goals and principles, which will serve as your tenets for the future and mostly, your entire life. please remember, that the most successful people are self-confident, and they also have "wounded knees". dont mind what other people may say, focus on your goals.....

Answer 9

plz know yourself,that is importance
all of them have their own ability
if you understand them you can win every where

Answer 10

first of all u have to think positive target ur goal.
when u at work you to concrete at work without thinking about world .you have to always ready to help to ur friends.