who thinks that love marriage is best??or tell me who wants be one by arrange marriage? and which is the best marriage for life?
2006-11-28 21:18:37 · 31 answers · asked by Redrose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
any marriage, either love or arranged....should have committment,, understanding between wife and husband. then any marriage or relation is successful.
2006-11-29 15:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many arranged marriages have worked out, when both people are following bible principles in the marriage. In the days of old, many people only married the ones selected for them by the parents.
Today this practice is uncommon. But it could work, if both the individuals work hard to keep the marriage together. But that is very rare. Look at Prince Charles and Lady Dianna. It was arranged, and it did not work out. Prince Charles loved another.
Love does conquer all. Love don't always make us choose the right one to be with, but it is a strong force.
When we love someone greatly, and unconditionally. We could stay with them forever. Especially if we chose our partner in life.
If it was arranged for us. We will be happier, if we give it a chance to grow, and work out.
I like the fact that in the U.S. we can choose our future mates. After all, we are the ones who have to live with them. But then again in some cultures it is what is done. The couple may come to later love each other. Who knows, they may be happier with the parents choosing for them.
2006-11-28 21:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriages are underrated on principle, but they have several benefits that are lost to the majority of so-called 'love' marriages.
1. Generally arranged marriages will come about through your parents who of all people in the world actually do have your best interests in mind.
2. The person they chose will generally be industrious, hardworking with a good backround and unlikely to mistreat you.
3. Another advantage is that arranged marriages do not have the false pretense of lust posing as love holding them together. Most people within actual relationships become outright stupid and incapable of seeing things for what they are.
2006-11-28 21:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have answered this bef.
Arranged marriages can work because of the people have commitment they have no bef. we married and after we married behaviors also normally people who enter into arranged marriages have had little to no past history with the opposite sex and this was the way they were raised to be. Love is a funny thing and love marriages can be up and down they can be smooth they can work but...who said what is the best?
2006-11-28 21:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both love marriage and arranged marriages are best, provided you can make them last. Cause all marriages have a 3 year itch.
2006-11-29 02:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by sonal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, love marriage is best because you choose who you want to be with....Hopefully, the person you choose is the right person for you....the one who makes you want to get up in the morning....makes you laugh, holds you when you cry, wants the same things in life that you do, makes you feel complete, you want to make love to this person because you find them physically and emotionally attractive.....you may find some of these things over time when you have an arranged marriage but it could also be a very bad situation.....If you have a choice...pick your own wife...good luck
2006-11-28 21:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the US, arranged marriages are extremely rare. People get married only because they want to. So it is impossible for me to imagine an arranged marriage.
2006-11-29 01:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Beth T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless there is understanding between partners both kind of marriages will fail. Most of the failed marriages if you notice would be a love marriage and the reason being that the boys prior to marriage go out of the way to please the girl and after marriage start taking life as it is thereby leading to argument... fights... then split .
2006-11-28 23:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sudden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that a marriage that is wanted by both people is the besat marriage. also, a marriage where the two involved are in love with eachother is good. There is no point being married if you arent going to enjoy it. After all, you only live on earth once, so enjoy it!
2006-11-28 21:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
arranged marriage is always the best one, 'cause our parents/ elders have been taking lot of care about our lives and future since the date of our birth. so it carries to marriage too. love marriage is a helusination or adolicence or infactuation about life. so it's a waste thing and forget about love marriage. it's simply because of harmons affect
2006-11-29 00:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love come arranged marriage or Arranged come love marriage, both works!!
Mine is a arranged come love marriage. We started loving each other after marriage, it gets deep & strong day by day.
My friend's is love come arranged marriage even theirs is going strong & well.
Whatever it is, donot forget to love ur loved one after marriage. That really matters buddy!
2006-11-28 21:27:24 · answer #11 · answered by Kanchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋