I've been with my guy for almost 3 months now...3 months on the 1st...and i feel rele rele close to him...but one thing always pisses me off bout him....we never have sex...like we have about 3 times and he always complains that i never want to do it and he tells ppl that i wont with him and complains all the time and nags me when were alone...but im just never in the mood...is there a way to get him to stop nagging me*without having sex* and a way for him to stop talking bout it with every1 we know...or is there a way for me to get in the mood better....?
2006-11-28 21:04:40 · 9 answers · asked by simfreak07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By the way...this is not my first boyfriend..i have had sex before....and i just dont know why this is happening with him....its never happened with any other boyfriend
2006-11-28 21:32:51 · update #1
you got to understand he point of view!!! poor git!!!
granted he shouldnt be telling everyone as its your own relationship! but
if you dont get in the mood he might end up leaving you! it really aint fair on him!!!
2006-11-28 21:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that was me I'd dump him. Is he you're first boyfriend? Is the reason you don't have sex because you don't think you're ready? Have you had sex with other boyfriends? How old are you? These are questions you have to think about, I understand he might be frustrated not getting any "satisfaction" but he shouldn't go around telling people. Try asking him why his saying things to other people, that maybe you should talk about what you want to do first. Show him things that make you want to have sex, and that it's your choice. Don't ever let somebody force you into something you dont want to, and if you do want to if it feels wrong or not right then honey, it most likely is (not right).
2006-11-28 21:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by waffl3ookiez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that will get a guy to stop thinking about having sex with a girl is for him to HAVE sex with that girl. Are you not physically attracted? Any medical problems or taking any medication? Has this been the case with other boyfriends?
As for him talking to anyone and everyone about your sex life -or lack there of - you have every right to be pissed. That's not something you broadcast.
2006-11-28 21:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel pressured into doing what you don't feel like doing, and he should have the decency to be quiet about it.
Tell him you don't think he's mature enough to be having sex or else tell him he isn't showing the right degree of respect for your relationship by talking to people about what is or isn't going on. Stop all sex with him, see if he stays or goes. If he stays maybe he'll learn to behave better. If he goes then you'll be better off.
2006-11-28 21:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you decied to wait till your married ,lol or maybe ask him to be more romantic about it, include some foreplay, instead of hey baby let's do it and him expect you to just hop in bed.
2006-11-28 21:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by serena3116 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah..tell him to learn how to turn you on. its something all men need to learn how to do. give him the books "men are from mars/women are from venus" and "the mens health guide to sex," and make sure he reads them both. your life will be SOOOOO much better with an educated man
2006-11-28 21:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all he cares about is your sex life... i would chuck him... the fact that he is tellig everyone about it i think is bang out of order! Relationships should have their secrets... i would tell him to keep his mouth zipped or his pants will always be zipped x
2006-11-28 21:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the convent.
2006-11-28 21:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2006-11-28 21:05:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋