Can anyone help?

Question

My husband and i have been trying for a baby and its just not happening we have been trying for about 2 years, he already has one child from his previous wife. I was wondering if anyone has any tips to help us out please!

Answer 1

Hello -- I can help you. Both you and your husband need to go out and but the ovulation kit call, FIRST RESPONSE.
What this kit does it tests your urine the very first thing and when it turns blue you can have a baby.
Believe, it works. It doesn't give you gender it gives you a baby. I have 3 healthy boys to prove it. My time clock
started ticking away and I used it. So Good Luck!

Answer 2

It is really important that you both relax...have you tried doing the basal body temp? You can get the thermometer at any drug store for $10 or less...you both should be taking vitamins, I made my hubby take "mega man" vitamins from GNC...I don't know if they still have the computer in the store or not, but you can look up fertility to get some info on what you guys should be taking to better your chances...it also helps if you climax after he does, apparently the contractions of the muscles help the sperm get where they need to go. If you haven't been you should elevate your hips w/ some pillows during and about 15 minutes or so after intercourse to give the "boys" some time to get up there! LOL....But really, the most important thing is to stay relaxed, have fun trying and DON'T STRESS...It took my husband and I over a year to get pregnant b/c I was worrying about it too much! Best of luck to you, I know how frustrating it can be! If you really think something is keeping you from getting pregnant, you should go see your Dr! Happy trying!

Answer 3

All I can think of is that you maintain a healthy lifestyle- exercise moderately, eat well, get adequate rest. No smoking or drugs & keep alcohol consumption to a minimum. Try not to stress too much & do activities that make you happy, Of course, a healthy sex life helps. If you are already doing all of this, then, the next step would possibly be to consult w/ a fertility physician. Best of luck to you!!! I'll pray that you're blessed w/ a baby!

Answer 4

This relax advice is just bull. Don't listen to those people. You need to be pro active in trying to concieve. And whatever you do, DO NOT take clomid if your doctor doesnt prescribe it for you. It is very dangerous. The only reason you would need clomid is if you do not ovulate (charting will help you figure out if you ovulate or not), or if your doctor thought it might help produce better ovulation. (Charting can also tell you if you are a weak ovulator).

Fertilityfriend.com is a great site for free charting and ovusoft.com is great for information and support. Also, it is probably a good time to see your doctor for preliminary tests.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Clomid, it worked for me, I now have a lovely little baby boy!
I used it and I got pregnant straight away.
It helps you to produce more eggs, giving you more chance of getting pregnant, it also gives you more chance of having mulitiples.
Ask your Doctor about it, if he says no, then order it online and take it anyway, thats what I did.
I'm not a doctor or am I medically trained but I was trying for 7 years and noone wanted to help us, so i ordered some online and I've never looked back.

Good luck
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Answer 6

don't think to hard on it most people that do have baby's are not trying and getting stressed about it try to make your sex life fun again and not like a job and maybe it will come easier

Answer 7

Just relax, and quit trying so hard....I know that is easier said than done....once you give yourself time to just stop worring about becoming pregnant is when the chances are you will get pregnant...