2006-11-28 20:12:08 · 13 answers · asked by natalie.waterson@btinternet.com 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
if that's what you think, may be that's what you are getting???
2006-11-28 21:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Marisha V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because people always, always have tendency to be perfect in so many way, shape and form, consciously and unconsciously.... Everything has to be perfect: that's a normal typical jargon in our recent society. While at the same time it gives you a tons of pressures on your shoulder to proof that 'you can' as part of perfectness which surely will lead you to the point where you sum life is so hard.....
We demand perfectness in our lives. We become soo uneasy and we defy and reject for something imperfect around us.
The demand and obligation to be perfect makes life is so hard and tough. But that's good to make you a tough cookie.....
2006-11-28 21:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid its as hard as you allow it to be. You could adopt a Pollyanna approach and find the good in everything and a reason to be, as she put it, glad.
On the other hand your own expectation of yourself can put you under pressure to achieve the goals you set, and the despair if you so called fail. The answer Lighten up you only live once enjoy.
2006-11-28 21:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jim G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not hard for everyone if you know where your priorities lie and you know how to handle your needs from your desires.
You expect too much in life.
2006-11-28 23:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Presea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Smooth seas make no great sailor"
Forgot who said that but, it's what I would recall to when things get bad.
It's true that someone may have easy life, get everything he wants and, never even have to ask for it.
But, working hard to earn it, is not that bad.
If you have everything easily, you may never know the value of having it.
Cheer up. Once you figure out how to make thing goes your way, life can be very interesting. When you get there, enjoy every moment of it, you have earn it.
"One who has fallen and doesn't get up is the one who is dead"
(forgot who said this too, sorry)
So, if you're not dead, get up and continue your journey.
2006-11-28 21:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tenny S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask my self that very question a little too often these days.
Just when you think you've dealt with one problem, another one rears its ugly head and slaps you right in the face!
The key is to look on the positive side of things and focus on what you do have rather than what you don't. Its helpful to remember that whatever negative things happen to us in our lives, they actually make us stronger because we learn how to deal with them and we learn from our mistakes. We also learn to appreciate th positive things more. You don't know what you've got til you don't have it anymore.
2006-11-29 00:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is as hard as you allow it to be.
2006-11-28 23:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is hard, but if it passes you lemons.....bring out the salt and tequila and make the best of it.
Hang in there. Things always work out for the best...;o)
2006-11-28 20:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by oli4p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lifes only as hard as you let it be. You have with in you the ability to make it soft and cuddly.
2006-11-28 20:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I often wondered myself why some people get it so easy and others so, so difficult. I'm sure there is a lot you can do for yourself, but most of it just appears to be the luck of the draw.
2006-11-28 20:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara Doll to you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you rely too much on money and not enough time is spent enjoying the small pleasures in life.
2006-11-28 20:14:51 · answer #11 · answered by Powerpuffgeezer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋