I love this girl, but she loves somebody else. I want her to be with him if that's what she wants, but it still hurts because I can never be with her and I'll have to settle for second best or be lonely for the rest of my life.
I want her to be happy, but I want to be with her too. I'm so heartbroken. Nobody could love her like I do. :( What should I do?
2006-11-28 20:02:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
its sad but move on
it happens to us all
2006-11-28 20:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, when I was 10 years old and really liked this girl at my school.
I wrote her a letter expressing my love and filled it with little love poems. I asked my best friend to go give it to her, which he did.
She took a look at it, tore it up and chucked it in the bin!!!!
I was mortified. :-)
Dude, you say that you love her but that it's ok for her to be with someone else? C'mon man, fight for her!
Flirt with her, send her a few messages and make a move when the time is right. If you just sit back, then there is no way you'll get her.
2006-11-29 04:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by orion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya I had a thing for this redhead and she turned me down because I was not some prep. She was in her 20's and still thought of school social groups. So I told her to grow up and see the real world. I am glad she turned me down or I would not have met and married the woman I am with now. Funny how things work out. I am still friends with the redhead and I don't regret a thing. She would have been second best.
2006-11-29 04:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No but you will get over here. If she doesn't want you then it was doomed from the start. Nothing is there. Find another and go from there.
You may love her more then any of to you,but not to her.....So she would never see it. Maybe the love you are looking for and what she is looking for is something different.
2006-11-29 04:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you truly love her and truly want to see her happy. Well then you would move on and accept the fact she's with someone and loves that person very much. Also, if you love her that much you probably will wait forever for her. If you had no doubt they'll stay forever :) but good luck!
Rock on!
2006-11-29 04:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Maria AKA one of a kind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your life. The all you want from the life is happiness. Now you feel that your happiness is in her but with little effort you start to feel happiness within from youself.
I was also like you mad after one girl. Suffered from depression. This also damaged the health. But I am happy even without her. I do things which please me. So I listen to music most of the times.
So do whatever brings smile to you and be hapy always.
My wishes are with you
2006-11-29 04:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by Nikhil G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look, i would naturally be tempted to say fight for your girl, but from the tone u got i cant help but feel that u've already done this but it still aint working...
so all i can say is just let her go.. if she was really meant to be yours , she'll be back.. if she doesnt, then well hey, life has to go on.
but then also, dont sit around and wait for her possible come back, live life in the meantime and who knows - u may bump into someone much better than this particular girl...
just my 2c..
2006-11-29 04:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Condie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kid i would buy you a drink and tell you if you really love her tell her so and if she rejects that idea don't be mean about it or bitter but tell her good-bye , don't be a kitty cat and just be her friend and yeah it's gonna hurt but with time it eases up and you will meet someone that you will love never quite the same as this girl but love is funny like that ...don't i repeat don't be a kitty about this ....that equals you losing any respect she ever had for you and dignity is worth it ....trust me on this one
2006-11-29 04:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that (everyone has or will!) there's nothing you can do, it's done. time will heal all and you'll find new love, but the first will always have a place in your heart. i know you can't believe there will be others but time marches on and so will you. good luck!
2006-11-29 04:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not only about been loved by somebody, it is also about love that somebody.
No matter how much you love her, if she doesn't love you, she wouldn't be happy with you. Also, she would be much happier with someone who (might) not love her the way you do, but still love her, if she love him back.
2006-11-29 04:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing actually,you must just move on...There's nothing we can do for people to want us back...But we also deserve better and believe me,you will find the true love in return...Good luck :-)
2006-11-29 04:07:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋