Im 9 months pregnant with twins and im really nervous about the birth - im only 17 and this is a lot to deal with - I have no idea whats going to happen - can anyone tell me ?
-Thanx - Yahmina
2006-11-28 19:49:27 · 9 answers · asked by Yahmina 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
LISTEN MY NAME IS JOANN AND YOU HAVE A FRIEND IN ME .I KNOW YOUR FEAR BECAUSE I AM 26 YEARS OLD NOW AND I HAVE 2 KIDS BOTH BOYS,MY OLDEST IS 12 AND MY YOUNGEST IS NOW 9.YES I WAS ONLY 14 WHEN I HAD MY OLDEST AND 16 WITH MY YOUNGEST.IT WILL BE TOUGH BUT TRUST IN GOD I WAS A SINGLE MOTHER WITH MY OLDEST THEN MET MY HUSBAND AND WE MARRIED THEN I HAD MY SECOND.TRUST ME THE BIRTH AND CARING FOR YOUR 2 BLESSINGS WILL COME NATURALLY ,YOU WILL WORRY ,A LOT MORE YOU BEING NERVOUS JUST SAYS YOU CARE ABOUT THOSE 2 BABIES AND A MOTHERS LOVE IS BEING SCARED AND NERVOUS .SO YOU WILL BE FINE .GOD BLESS YOU ,SWEETIE.AND LIKE I SAID IM HERE FOR YOU .
2006-11-28 20:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by trenesito2000 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the biggest piece of advice anyone can give you before a baby is to go into it with an open mind and just do whatever you have to do to deliver your bubs into the world healthy and happy. It may happen naturally for you or you may have to have a c section. They may be on time or they may be late. You may have an epidural or pain medication, or maybe you will cope and wont need anything.
No one can tell you whats going to happen, but as long as you have support there with you and go with the flow, everything will work out fine.
As far as after the birth, things will be busy for you, thats for sure. But a lot of people have told me it is really nice having twins. You're young and you will have the energy to cope with it all. Good Luck!
2006-11-29 04:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by mrs herby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be strong to be blunt and not to scare you but the contractions hurt like hell make sure you prepare yourself for c section just in case your body cant deal with the birth at your age it'll all be okay after its over you'll never remember the pain just the memories ahead be strong ma TAKE A DEEP BREATH Im 20 I was 16 with my first and 17 with my second I feel ya
2006-11-29 03:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lil Lady 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know what you are going through, but now that my baby is nine months old, the birth is just so irrelevant compared to the joy and amazing experience of motherhood. that probably doesn't seem real right now, but just be strong and think of your babies. when you hold them in your arms and see the miracle you have created, nothing else matters! don't listen to people putting you down cos you are 17, you will be a great mum! good luck :)
2006-11-29 04:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by uenuku 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your body will change through the last few stages of your pregnancy but when it is time to give birth you will feel pain and then you will just fall into labour and before you know it, it will be all over and done with
2006-11-29 04:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice hon is try not to stress about it. One way or another they are going to come out . The fact that you have reached this far shows your body is more than capabale of having twins.
2006-11-29 03:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by silverthorn73 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The birth will be easy in comparison to he years afterwards. Good luck
2006-11-29 03:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, you're only 17?? That's not good! It's not going to be very easy honey, but you WILL get through this. Odds are, you'll probably have to have a C section and the recovery to this will be longer than you would like, but I think you'll be fine and make it through, you deserve a good home for these babies! :-)
2006-11-29 03:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by sally b 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Whatever it is, you won't be the first - or the last.
I have it on good authority that women have been giving birth for thousands of years.
2006-11-29 03:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by A_Patriot 2 · 1⤊ 7⤋