Yeah, so I have this roommate that moved in a couple of days ago, and she is very very cute. But I decided to act gay when we first met, to make her feel more comfortable about living with a man. And know she totally believes it, and I have to act that way everyday. :( Change voice. The way I walk. Even the way I dress. It was kind of fun at first, but I am 100% straight.
Will she hate me if I come clean?
2006-11-28 19:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
dude. she's there. it was a stupid move on your part but the longer you keep it up the more damaging it's going to be in the long run. Suppose she decides to try and hook you up with one of her gay friends?
Come clean, admit you didn't want her to feel threatened but you realized you weren't being very honest.
You don't have to tell her EVERYTHING. (Leave the "I thought you were hot so I acted gay so you'd move in and I could bang you" part out. :-) Just confess you were acting and decided enough was enough. You thought she was cool. Wanted to get to know her and figured if you tried to make yourself appear as harmless as possible that she wouldn't feel weird moving in with a guy.
Because you felt kind of weird with her moving in but you're trying to be an evolved man. :-)
2006-11-29 02:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if she will hate you, but it's not going to go down well when she discovers your deceit. I don't know what you can say or do to maker her feel comfortable about having you as a roomate.
You really decided to act gay so that she would be more comfortable living with you? Did you have to think a long time about that? And now it's fun! Wow! All that sounds pretty bogus to me.
Sounds like a sit-com theme to me. Life imitates art, yet again.
2006-11-28 19:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ecks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well The only thing I can tell you is that, if there is no problem with the bussines relationship (meaning the living conditions, the place) she will only feel that you lie to her and there should be no problem. Now if you have seen her naked, that might be a problem. If you have feelings for her,Dont even think about is not gonna work but you would be able to be her friend and star over as yourself and maybe she can hoke you up with one of her friends
2006-11-28 23:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. And she'll want to know why you lied in the first place. That's a really weird thing to lie about. How can she be attracted to you if she thinks you're gay. It'll be a real turnoff even when you come clean.
2006-11-28 19:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by Amelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lie is a lie. In the grand scheme of things though - you haven't hurt her. When she realises it was for her benefit according to your (warped) way of thinking - I'm sure she'll be prepared to forgive you.
2006-11-28 21:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hate you..thats a pretty stupid thing to do and shows your lack of foresight
you had better come clean or get a big black boyfriend
2006-11-28 19:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Bazil 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This sounds really stupid. If you have to resort to these extremes to get laid you must be really gross. Go to Jenny Craig, shower regularly, work on your personality, etc. Good luck, dude. Sounds like you need it.
2006-11-28 22:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better post an ad for a new roommate. I will be surprised if she does not kill you.
2006-11-28 19:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by mpicky2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been watching reruns of "Three's Company"?
2006-11-28 19:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out. Tell her now. She might laugh about it.
2006-11-28 19:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋