Me and my husband have been marrie for almost 2 and half years. First we were not trying for a baby but now we are trying. Its almost been 3 monts since we are trying but no luck. Give me an advice. I am 21. and since we're trying my periods are always late like 1 or 2 weeks late since we are not having a protective sex.
I really want a baby now! plzz help and tell me a way of concieving. I think i m not concieving
2006-11-28 19:27:11 · 14 answers · asked by some_1_call_me_queen 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Three months is really not a lot of time to have been trying. After all, that's what? three ovulations?
Don't overdo it, just relax, try different times of the month, different hours of the day. Try getting your man all worked up for a while before you do anything.
Several factors can be involved here: low sperm count on the man, low receptivity on your part... OK, well, maybe not so many factors.
Sperm count is sperm count. Your guy can eat zinc and protein, and get really wound up without releasing himself for a few days to get that ramped up.
Receptivity is all about your body's own defenses. Honestly, I don't know anything about that. I assume diet can affect this, and you can measure your temperature or something to figure out what the best time of day is for conceiving.
2006-11-28 19:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for it to take up to a year before you get pregnant for the first time.
Are you and your husband having sex at your most fertile time? i.e. about 14 days after your period starts?
I would go to a chemist and get an ovulation kit - This will tell you when you are ovulating so you can have sex just before and for 3-4 days after ovulation to give you the best chance of conceiving.
Also, the more you stress and worry about it, the less likely you are to get pregnant! So just relax and let nature take its course!
If you are still very worried, then go and see a doctor and they may be able to give you a reason why you aren't getting pregnant.
Hope you have luck soon!
2006-11-28 19:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by jane_vernon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Charting things out like the will drive you CRAZY. You can also cause yourself to have symptoms just because you want to be pregnant so badly. My husband and I were trying to have a baby last month and I took a very early pregnancy test that was positive (I took it like 2 days after I ovulated and I wasn't due to have my period for almost 2 weeks) I was so excited and the very next morning I started feeling the symptoms of pregnancy, nausea, fatigue and even the odd "tingling" cramping sensation I felt with my son. Just to be sure (because the line was very faint on the first test) I took the other test in the pack 2 days later, well it was negative. I was so disappointed, but I told myself well it's probably a false negative because I didn't use my first morning urine. So my husband went to the store and got the early result tests, and the next morning I took another test with first morning urine and it was also negative. But I just couldn't accept that with all my symptoms and the first positive test that I wasn't pregnant. Long story short... A roller coaster ride of emotions and about 30 dollars later I got my period. I later found out that my egg most likely had been fertilized but did not implant. Causing the surge of pregnancy hormones that the positive test picked up on, and because of the hormones my period also came late.
2016-03-29 15:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm TTC it' now 1 year since starting, i am more relaxed now and have changed my attitude about ttc i think the main reason it hasn't happened as i stressed about ttc and it was taking over my life. Just try to have fun the best thing about ttc is the amount of intercourse you can have and any time you want. Don't use the ovulation predictor calanders online as they do not work for everyone. If after a year it has not happened see your GP for basic tests.
Good luck it will happen.
2006-11-29 00:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out when the middle of your cycle is and have your husband abstain from any pleasure for 3 days before that- then have sex- you should ovulate mid cycle- if you don't concieve in w.i a year then I would see a md- an ovulation predictor may help- and doing the temperature check every day-D
2006-11-28 19:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took 2 years for both of my pregnancies.
You just gotta let it happen naturally. If you want to spend the money, see a Dr for professional advice and don't resort to Yahoo for this serious of a subject!
2006-11-28 19:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by onecharliecat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you doing it right ? I mean the task that leads to child?? Check it out first , lotsa books availabls with illustration et al.
Later if things still dont work you can see a doctor.
I had read somwhere that intake of vitamins (B compex,Folic acid) helps too.
2006-11-28 19:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't worry just yet; 3 mos isn't a long time. After 6 months you might consider seeing a doctor. Getting all worried won't help you conceive, relax
2006-11-28 19:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my doctor told me that a healthy woman can take from 6 months to 1 year to get pregnant.
keep trying and start tracking your periods.
this is what helped to me.
www.mymonthlycycles.com
good luck
2006-11-28 19:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and enjoy yourself . Cos you too tense up , Anyway baby alway like to pop out when you least expect them.
2006-11-28 19:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋