The best way to find out what you want to do is to get involved in a volunteer organization. Go to the Humane Society and walk the dogs or clean their pens. Sign up to help on a Habitat For Humanity site, helping a family to build themselves a home. Go to an old folks home and visit the elderly or volunteer to help with bingo or other activity. Be a kid's reading buddy at school. Help at a soup kitchen. Unload a truck at your local food pantry. Sign up to be a medical driver for someone who can't drive to their doctor's appointment. Get involved in your local church, giving you more opportunities to help in an outreach situation, such as being a chaperone on a youth group retreat. There is so much to do in this world, and not enough people to do it. By volunteering, you'll find strengths & talents that you didn't know you had. My daughter was much like you. When she graduated high school, she didn't have a clue what she wanted to do. So, that summer, she got a job in a resort community, at a toy store. While there, she got to be friends with the local cops, and became interested in that line of work. She got books from the library and started studying about what she'd have to do to get started. And now she's in her second year of school, working on her Bachelor's Degree in Criminal Justice. Sometimes, it just takes one event, to turn your whole life around. Whether that's a positive event or a negative one is up to you. But, being young has it's up side. You have your whole life ahead of you, and time to explore what's out there. Hopefully, you'll make the right choices, and find those hidden talents that will point the way to a successful career. <*)))><
2006-11-28 19:22:07
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answered by Sandylynn 6
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for being active in life U have to have some dreams and hopes , without hopes U wouldn't even be able to live for one more day!!! When people find out that they don't want anything or they can not have what the want or theyr kinda lost between what they want and how they can gain it they become unknown to themselves and they stop working , its like a shock , some people seek to find their ways and some people just give up and commit a suicide , U don't wanna die therefore Ur in your way to find a goal , to make a plan!! try Ur best to find what suits U and whats the best for u , If u r already interested in something dont give up;)
Good luck
2006-11-29 03:15:41
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answered by Anonymous
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What you need is to get motivated, there must be something you want to achieve in life, if it's only getting out of bed in the morning.Do some gentle excercises even a brisk walk in the park would benefit you, be more positive towards life in general, life is a wonderful thing what a shame you are missing out on such a lot. good luck.
2006-11-29 04:23:50
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answered by poetrygirl on line 3
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sometimes it's actually a matter of not having the drive. we all aspire to be something...famous, smart, or a good person, happy, pfft for some it's just to be alive or to live life, stay above water financially...anything and everything, you name it. it's whether we do something about it or even want to. the question is...do you have the drive? what is it that you want for yourself? a dream doesn't have to mean a career or anything, it could be as simple as loving another person more, or stopping to smell the flowers more....whatever will bring peace and happiness to you.
2006-11-29 03:16:53
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answered by ´¯0())))»·.¸¸.·´´¯`··._.· 4
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it looks like you are afraid of it, why???
take it easy..., what do you like most of all??? do you like to cook, read, swim, sing, draw, go for a walk, talk with people??? well, staring from there you can choose the direction.I suggest, just relax and actually do stuff.. not thinking of it , but do, cause without trying you wont know , what you like, good luck...
2006-11-29 05:13:49
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answered by Marisha V 2
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