I have this friend that expects me to bow down to her and worship the ground that she walks on. If i do not call her everday and tell her everything about my day that she gets really upset with me and spreads nasty rumors about me. Then if i am upset and she helps me. She expects me to do the same. Which is not a problme but When she is upset and i ask if i can help her she will jump down my throt and attack me and tell me to leave her alone. But then twenty minutes later she is texting me saying how i am a horrible friend. then the next day she is acting like my best friend again.
2006-11-28 18:23:51 · 18 answers · asked by cinderellagirl007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm glad she's your friend and not mine.
2006-11-28 18:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not necessary say that she is not your friend...I just think she has a different understanding of friendship than you do.Maybe try sating her down and talking to her and tell her how you feel and that you will no longer accept her disrespecting you.let her know that you really value the friendship and would love to continual it but you will end the friendship if she doesn't stop treating you as she do.remind her that she is not your lover but your friend.ask her to give you her definition of friendship and you give her yours and if they don't match then you will know what to do from that point.she maybe even going though something that she may have never told you about and really don't know how to deal with it and and know no other way to release other then on you and not even realize that she is really hurting you.then maybe she likes you for more than just a friend and don't know how to tell you.what ever you decide to do just make sure that you gave your best to be the best friend that you can be if you decide to end it..that way you wont feel any guilt later.Good luck!!
2006-11-28 19:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by reree41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like much of a friend.
Does this person offer you something special that you would put up with this? Is it worth it?
Sometimes we have to move on from friends that are pulling us down and find new relationships that offer us positive and enriching experiences. Only you can decide when it's time to do that.
You could try having a conversation with your friend about this if you feel it is worth making that effort. Best wishes.
2006-11-28 18:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes called a girl hun, at my skool there are so many of them, all girls school. all you have to do is tell them that u dont have time to call her every day, maybe compramize with an email? if she ahs a problem with this leave her for a few days to cool down and then if she still wants to be friends after she realizes that you wont pry to her, give her another chance. But its most likly up to you to make the hard choice of if u want her as a friend. i no, its hard
2006-11-28 18:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Answer these questions, and they might lead you to an answer . . .
what makes this person your friend in the first place?
what about this friend brings you happiness?
do you want to be apart of a relationship that does not reciprocate the same respect and kindness that you show?
do you really need this person in your life?
When I have been faced with problems like this, I ask myself these questions. I have always found my answer.
hope this helps . . .
2006-11-28 18:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Oshiri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who thinks she can dictate my life and what I do and I'm 45!! I've never had such a weird friendship and decided its just not healthy for me emotionally. I've never clashed with someone so bad before so I don't think its me. I'd say just keep your distance and ignore her. Find new friends.
2006-11-28 20:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bitchy people does not equal to a friend. but also try to assess the situation first- she might be a good friend in some other ways and you just need to understand her more. she might be stressed about something else (family?). just have a girl talk - and patch things up.
2006-11-28 18:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by Airam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is not your friend, at least not by my definition of friend. You need to think about what a friend is to you and then see if she fits. I think you'll find she doesn't, in which case you are wasting your friendship on her. Give it to someone who will treasure it, and return it.
2006-11-28 18:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by LofanNui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 08:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by dickirson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just become the EX friend!! And tell her EXACTLY WHY!!!!!!!Why are you enabling her?? As long as you know what is the truth then who cares if she spreads rumors..
2006-11-28 18:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on. What is with girls putting up with crap like that from their friends? My daughter does the same thing. Stupid!
2006-11-28 18:27:30 · answer #11 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋