We both married. She is 43 and I am 37. Both family knew each others. We knew for about a year. we started chit chat thru phone and during gathering few months back. beginning was chat later she start telling me about her husband and kept complaining to me that her husband don't give her any freedom at all and careless .. she is sick of that but she remains ..
later part she called me and sang a Kiss song then kiss me thru phone and told me this is her limit and cannot go further with me ..
I can also see that she is messing with guys but those with care and nice ones i supposed. but what can i do to avoid me being hurt if .. really mess up my mind by her ? But i need to do in order just to keep our ordinary friendship ? Avoiding her and her phone ?
i phone message her that i decided to end this relationship. i called later to check whether if she got it and she sound like in anger .. what she thinking ?
2006-11-28 18:15:46 · 8 answers · asked by alanlee011 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
She probably has the unfair expectation that you will continue/start to pine for her.... She is angry that you aren't fulfilling what she wants from you. I'd guess.... but you should ask her
2006-11-28 18:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This situation is kind of bizarre as far as I'm concerned.
At 37 years old, she's singing songs over the phone and blowing kisses? She's grossly immature for one thing.
You're both married. Her marriage is her problem. Yours should be your concern. Drop the phone friend. She obviously has no shortage of "pals" to entertain her. Why risk your marriage over such a peculiar set-up?
2006-11-28 18:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you both need to be more mature. And since it is you we are giving advice to, then you grow up and stop acting like a sad puppy (teenager). She is obviously bad news and you are not helping things by feeding her problems. She needs to cure herself without a crutch(you). And you need to end it quick. Who cares if she is angry, what about your wife if she finds out, think she would want to get the big D. Be careful what you say to this other woman and forget about being her friend, back off and let her be your friend by leaving you and your marriage alone.
2006-11-28 18:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not understanding correctly - are you married to her? and why does she have another husband? or are you in an affair with her? if you are, plz dont continue! You WILL get hurt, as long as her husband is still married to her! Even if she divorces him, she needs some time to sort out her emotions b4 she goes into another relationship, or she will likely repeat the same mistakes that went on b4!!
2006-11-28 18:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by thru a glass darkly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women like to have attention of several men (just attention, not sex)
It is part of their nature, so not like she's a bad woman.
Just talking on the phone is probably OK. Just make sure you never touch her, and you are never together alone.
2006-11-28 18:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think deep down you know what you should and want to do, you just need reassurance. Have strength and do it, it's for the best.
A tease, is a tease.
2006-11-28 18:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by joruaishiteru 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
expect to suffer
it is in the mail on its way to you
or keep ur integrity in front of you man
2006-11-30 05:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of the situation....always protect your heart from being broken.....if you dont no one else will.
2006-11-30 08:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋