My mother married the father of a girl I REALLY like. Now that we're living together, we were getting along GREAT... then she KISSED me. No, not sibling kissing... it was pretty passionate and on the lips. We made out for the longest time and she said ... well, sorta told me that she wanted me to meet her in her room tonight. I don't know exactly what to expect and I'm kinda scared/nervous. I mean, her father and my mother are MARRIED! It's such a freak situation, I mean, what do you do in this situation? I REALLY like this girl, it's very genuine, and she is a genuine and very clean girl.. I think she actually might be a virgin. As much as I have a conscience throwing stones at my back and telling me it might complicate things.. I REALLY want to go in her room tonight.. at LEAST just to see what she has in store... :-\
2006-11-28 18:05:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are both living with your parents you are too young to be having sex in my opinion. If the two of you decide to anyway be smart and use a condom. In some states sex between step siblings is considered incest and is illegal. You might to check that out. If it is illegal in your state and you two get caught the oldest one will most likely be charged with a crime and possibly end up being a registered sex offender for life. BE VERY VERY CAREFUL!!!
2006-11-28 18:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok since you guys are not blood related, isn't it? I think it will also be a pleasant surprise for ur newly-matched parents.. like one big happy family! :))) But I guess things would be awkward if things turn sour between both of you in future... then you still gotta face each other after the "breakup". This is something you must consider! Depending on what age are you at, things may become very different....
2006-11-29 02:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Kee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is completely up to you whether or not you want to pursue the relationship. However, you should at least consider if you are ready to take the criticism form your family and friends. You also might want to think about how miserable the situation could be if you get in a relationship and then it doesn't work out.
2006-11-29 02:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. It could really complicate things. What if she gets mad at you for something and tells what happened her way. Do you realize how that could affect the family? Or you decide she isn't what you want after all. I tell you again don't do it she can make life hell. Trust me I'm a girl I know. Don't think with your other head use your brain
2006-11-29 02:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you share blood? No? Then what's the problem? Are you worried about what society will think? Worried about Jerry Springer calling you in the middle of the night? You only have one life, dude...just cuz your ma and her pa already tied the knot does NOT make the daughter off limits.
2006-11-29 02:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by coffeefreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the voice in your head. You KNOW it will complicate things. There's always tomorrow. Something tells me it's to late. Just wait! Life is short. Try to not be self centered . Think about your mother who will surely over re-act.
2006-11-29 02:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by solapine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a friend of mine dated her step-bro....but they dated before their parents got together and then they broke up and dated again when their parents got married....lucky for them their parents were only married for 7 months....but yes it is a very strange situation....I think depending on your age i would just let it go and find someone else....it's not like you are in a relationship with her now....i would stop it now before things get to difficult.
2006-11-29 02:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by Misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not your blood relative. In truth, she's just like any other girl out there. I'd say go for it! Just be careful you don't piss off the parents. And, if they try to throw it in your face that there's something wrong with it, don't believe it! She is not your blood relative. There is nothing legally or morally wrong with you two liking each other. Have fun!
2006-11-29 02:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it its your parents that are married.She is not your real sister and you didn't grow up with her so its normal.You have done nothing wrong.But just remember if things go wrong with you.you are still gonna be living in the same house.How will you feel about that and if she sees other guys.Will it get weird.Maybe you should talk to your parent about it.
2006-11-29 02:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by ness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it and whatever happens happens. That is life. Look on the bright side. If it works out you can stay the night at her place.
2006-11-29 02:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋