I know a guy for the past 3.5 yrs. I had slowly started to fall for him over the years without even seeing him even though we are living in the same country. We finally met recently. Things went fine.. And whenever he says he just cant seem to find the right gal, I just tell him you dun look hard enough ard you.. I cant bring myself to tell him my feelings either without knowing what he is thinking of me.. All my friends are asking me to go upto him and just tell him the truth, but i am afraid it will spoil my very good friendship with him. :( Letting go is one choice.. is there any others?
2006-11-28 17:50:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Never tell a man that you have feelings for him first.What if he doesn't have any feelings for you?Try to spend some time with him.Do things and go places with him as friends.Then become a close friend.If it's meant to be,love will come to the surface.At this point,i think step by step is better than telling him"i love you" out of blue.Good luck.
2006-11-28 18:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him see you and how you feel. If he likes you too, then great! If not, then you suffer a little embarassment and you move on. What's it worth to you? Love. It ought to be so easy but it's the hardest word to say.
2006-11-29 01:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he feels about you and let him know your liking of him.. Share with him, what are the areas that you like him.
2006-11-29 02:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of telling him hes not looking hard enough tell him hes looking to hard... sometimes you cant see the forrest for the trees.. you know.. and secondly just tell him...
2006-11-29 01:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋