have a delima!! please help?

Question

have a delima!! please help?
Me and this guy i have been talking to talked on the Phone on sunday. It got pretty late and he told me to call him back monday,. i asked him if he was going to answer his phone and he said yes. so i called him and he didnt answer. but then he called me back in a couple of minutes. we talked for 4 minutes and he told me he would call me back becuz he was eating but he never called me back. I was very upset about that. but the next morning i sent him a text message and he said he aplogize for hurting my feelings and i felt better. so the question is should i call him tonight or did we talk enough this week???

and please dont write grow up or anything stupid i typed this fast and there may be a few typos but you can get the point need to know

Answer 1

You should definitely wait for him to call you back. You've been doing all of the calling thus far and if you continue he'll think you're desperate.

Answer 2

I would wait a little while before calling him again. You have to know that guys have a very short term memory. They may want to call but they forget. now some times this is okay you may want to give him a period of time before you get too mad. he aslo may be testing the waters. talking for a while to see if he likes you enough to keep talking. finding out how long he can go before you get upset & that will tell him how long he wants to know you. If you like him so far give him a little time. maybe talk once or twice a week at first. Also, just a side note, I think if he actually apologized then he does care but again they are VERY forgetful at first.

Answer 3

sweetie, by asking us not to tell you to grow up means you are acknowledging the fact that you might be a bit immature but are not ready to accept it. i think that you shouldn't make a big stink out of it. if he doesn't wanna talk then you shouldn't have any reason to want to talk to him. if he said some things that made you fall for him over the phone, then good for you but a relationship is not and should not be based on phone calls. the number of calls you have and the duration of the conversation is not a gauge on how much he likes/loves you or how much of a brilliant guy he is. test him. see how he is when you are together. he shouold be consistent. it looks like you are really into him but nothing exclusive yet. don't rush, talk to other people and hang out wiht them too...good luck.

Answer 4

Thats definately a touchy situation. I think that maybe you should choose a different name because it may bring back memories for your sister. Even if you talk to your sister about it and if she says she doesn't have a problem with it I think you need to still take her feelings into account and not use the name Natalie at all.

Answer 5

Call him one more time, if he cuts you short, forget him. Try to call at a time when you think he may not be busy with dinner and things.

Answer 6

he's playing u. don't waste your time tip toeing around his needs. make him call you. make him do the chasing. if he doesn't, then he isn't worth your time. rt. now he's making you do all the work. you need to gain the upper hand. no guy is worth your time and aggravation when he can't even engage in an intelligent conversation after he told you to call.

Answer 7

Call him, all beginnings are difficult. If you see things don't change then walk away.

Answer 8

call him and tell him if it don't work out with the other girlfriend that you still likely will be interested.