2006-11-28 16:10:51 · 13 answers · asked by Jolynn S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
GET him an XBOX..... worked for me! lol lol lol ... Seriously... he plays it all the time! I didn't have to try to get out of the house.. he just said... oh why dont you go out with your sister tonight.. see you when you get home. Usually he whines about me leaving! BUT the XBOX saved my marriage! LOL LOL LOL LOL
2006-11-28 16:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, thats life! Men are from mars... that kinda thing. Read the book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Is it PMS?? I would recommend sitting down and writting down a list of the negative things he's done, and then make a list of all the positive things he does. Then make a list of the top 10 reasons you fell in love with the man, feel free to continue if you get on a roll. Take a long bubble bath to unwind and think about the 5 most romantic dates he has ever taken you on. Then plan a romatic time for the two of you. It might just be the fresh start you two need.
2006-11-29 00:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its you! Have you thought about that? Is he the same annoying man that you married or is this something that has transpired over time? Well, I like the idea of duct tape, but unless you bound both his hands and feet, it wont work. I honestly feel that one of you need an outlet, a hobby. If he makes this difficult for you then you have every right to assert yourself and stand up to him about invading your space, once he starts missing the opportunities to flirt, bemuse, or just bug you, he will be more docile. Remember, two butting heads only causes severe headaches, however if you use your head effectively you can alleviate the pain.
2006-11-29 00:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has he done? what is annoying you? Would it be that you are to sensitive that you get annoyed by the little things he is doing? Whatever the case, if he is not abusing you, go step by step and address the annoying issue, what it is, why he does it, and how it affects you. can it be done differently? does he know he annoys you?
Point to consider, assuming you are married, then it was for better for worse. Consider when you could not sleep because of how much you loved this man, should this annoying thing separate you???
2006-11-29 00:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is he doing that annoys you so much? It is a little hard to answer that question. If it is just because he is just routine.....all you can do is try to get him to do things with you. If it is his habits.......good luck. I don't know how long you have been together but one thing I can tell you as time goes on it gets worse. Another thing you can do it confront him. Get it out in the open. Could be that he doesn't know that he is annoying you.
2006-11-29 00:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by c_my_blueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Thats the only way to solve your problem.
But before that think of point why he gets annoyed. If its due to you, change yourself. If something else is bugging him and he is talking all out on you, support him, discuss the problem, find a solution, make him believe that he is not alone to face the problem and you are there to help him in every difficult situations.
2006-11-29 00:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by hard_2forget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to learn how to deal with it or get divorced.My husband is the same.He is so annoying that I hate him sometimes.I tried almost everything.We wend to psychologists,we bought Cd's and movies about relationships,we tried to talk but nothing worked.You have to ask yourself :what good do I get from this relationship?Is it worth to deal with the problem to the rest of my life?He will never change.Its too late for that.Good luck to you.
2006-11-29 00:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry sleep it off and do what you always do in the morning then the anger will go away.. then when your calm and rational... talk to him but set up a time to talk about this with him don't sweep under the rug.
I think there's a movie on tonight on abc... good night.
2006-11-29 00:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by jmilil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might as well get used to that. there's gonna be alot more times in the future when he is gonna annoy the s**t out of you.and you shouldn't just get rid of him just because he is annoying. just remember... there are probably alot of times that you have annoyed him and he is still with you. just work it out.
2006-11-29 00:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by menolikey811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through those periods in our marriage...sometimes it passes and sometimes it takes a divorce attorney...the choice is yours....
2006-11-29 00:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by vanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋