I have always been told that your not to have sex befor marrige but I think I might what do you guys think I should do?Best answer gets 10!
2006-11-28 16:07:53 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ash: Why would you want to take the chance with STDs, the way they are flying around these days? Wouldn't sex be nicer (ideal), with someone who loves you for you rather, than just to "scratch an itch"? Just look at it this way. You find a guy you really love and he loves you. You then, decide, that you want to spend the rest of your life with him and become married. Then, after the fact, you are lost in thought one day, and you reflect back on how you saved yourself for the man of your dreams - you feel very glad inside, knowing that you have only love to give him and him, to you ! No second guesses, no STDs nor STD "hangovers" to bring into the relationship. It's a win-win situation, all the way around ! This will contribute to sound mental health for you too. Virginity is only, for a while until you get married to the man you love - wait !
2006-11-28 16:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think that you should lose it when you feel that the time is right.
Saving sex for marrige isn't for everybody. You just have to follow your instincts and make sure that your making the right decision. After all once you lose it you can never get it back.
2006-11-28 16:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi im not a guy but i kindof wish that i would have waited. i think its really funny me thinking this because thats sooo not how i was raised. i was raised to be slutty and proud of it. but i just couldnt keep up that tradition,lol. i did sleep with a small amount of guys before i got married though and looking back it really wasnt worth it. i happened to be my husbands first. he was 20 when he lost it to me! but if sex is not a big deal to you like it wasnt me, then it wont matter to you to much. sex is sex sometimes. but i still think that it would have been nice if my hubby was my first. because when people ask us he can say that i was his first and i just wish that i could say that back. but oh well you cant turn back time and if i hadnt have been the way i was then i wouldnt be good at certain things now, lol.
2006-11-28 17:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by raspberrysmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For years it has been like that and sometimes people actually carry it out and do decide to wait untill they meet the right person and marry them!! It is all up to you and how you feel about it!! When you are ready and you feel that your partner is someone you would like to loose it to then go ahead but be smart!!!! Once you give it away you can never get it back so be smart about it, use protection and don't go crazy and keep making your way around!! When you meet the right guy you will feel that you are ready!!
2006-11-28 16:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing bad that can happen to you if you have sex before marriage. think of it this way. when you are gonna spend the rest of your life with someone, you wnat to make sure that you are compatible with them on every level of your relationship. that includes s3x too! what if you get married and it sucks. you wont be happy. also what happens if you marry as a virgin and have sex and wonder what it would be like with someone else? you might be driven to cheat? now give me 10 points!
2006-11-28 16:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try before you buy! No harm in checking out the merchandise as long as you are careful and use both birth control and STD prevention devices. ie Pill and condom. Don't go for random sex all over the place but I don't see any problems with checking out whats available. After all, once you are married you are committed. And you do have to be sexually attracted as well as in love with your husband to be for it to work out.
Be safe and have a blast
2006-11-28 16:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by Katie G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not a Sin to have sex before marriage.. so dont think in that sense.
Now having sex or not having sex is absolutely one individual's choce so if you wish you can go for it without any feeling of guilt but with dur PRECAUTIONS...
:=)
2006-11-28 20:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only do it if you feel the person you are going to be having sex with is the right person for you. If you have any doubts chances are you shouldn't do it because you might end up regretting it.
2006-11-28 16:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by prkaholic 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex before marriage is called fornication,a sin, in the Bible..Rom 1-28, 29...Wait....
2006-11-28 17:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by Barbarita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will know when you are ready to have sex. Don't let anyone pressure you. When the time is right you will know what to do. Only you can make this decision.
2006-11-28 16:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by Hunny Bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋