What are some good ways to get over the feeling of being left out as though no one really needs you or wants you around them, or feeling rejected.
Mixed feelings, gatta love 'em -_-
2006-11-28 16:06:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find people who do!
2006-11-28 16:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear been there and when you stop caring the weirdest things starts to happen i have just decided i belong anywhere i love to be and keep putting myself in situations where i don't nessicarily belong ill go to a latin club and be the only white chick learn to dance the dance talk a little of the talk and wow the people that were ignoring me turn out to be really aw some people! i started surfing in Florida when only 3 other girls surfed i didn't get treated very well it was a different time i had so much fun any way gained self respect and eventually everyone Else's . pick up your head smile love your self and everyone else will come along for the ride and try different groups of people till others realize you are as valuable a you realize you are valuable God bless you ps i got the crap beaten out of me when i was a teen even by guys cause they thought i was weird and i was so what now people love me for it i get invited to so many parties because i embraced my uniqueness and people think I'm a trip and want to be around me bless you
2006-11-29 00:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by dancfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to others. Real people who know you. Like a parent or sibling or even a co-worker whom you trust.
I feel like that sometimes too. Spending time by yourself encourages the low self esteem not fix it. Get out, even if it is to the nearest coffee shop or mall, go for a walk, call or pray to your favorite "God" (I am not religious but I am spiritual).
Watch a funny TV show or go and see a movie. Swim!! That is my favorite.
I hope you find your way, things will be better soon!
2006-11-29 00:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by Parent to 2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you may just be down on yourself. Self esteem does a lot for a person.
One suggestion I can give you, is to make suggestions to people and see if they take you up on it. i.e. going to a movie, having them over for a meal, sleep over, etc
If nobody is interested, than I don't think you are the problem, I think you are hanging around the wrong people. You have to be involved with people who are interested in the same things you are. Joining clubs i.e. bowling, crafts, taking a course etc is a sure way to met people who are interested in the same thing you are.
2006-11-29 00:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by keeptrying4sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is the only way... Focus on "Self". Personal needs, desires, wants, enjoyment and personal goals". It is only natural to wnat to be desired and/ or included... however, it is a matter of timing. Both sides have to be on the same page. They have to want and YOU have to want for it all the mesh together. I person of confidence and self reliance is desirable... Why? Because she is a positive influence. Never look or act needy. Really... who wants that. Nuff said. Caz.
2006-11-29 00:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by casual247 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to find an activity you like and try and meet other who do...if that fails, I say, FAMILY is always the best remedy, and if that fails, I say try and explore outside your normal element, i.e. school, or wherever people feel you're being avoided....
2006-11-29 00:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by Christopher F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey. there really isnt a quick fix! Join a club or something where you'll feel important!
2006-11-29 00:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in where you fit in! Don't force yourself on people. Do be friendly and accesible. You'll find your niche eventually.
2006-11-29 00:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wanna get over that ?
watch friends
2006-11-29 00:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww, does someone need a hug!?
2006-11-29 00:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋