Is it gonna be mean to do so when I know he really likes me and that I do not really want to date him or anything?
I know this sounds pretty pathetic, but I'm only physically attracted to him--I dont think we will last anyway if we ever date. This is why we have been flirting like crazy. We have this huge personality conflict and all, but I really do have some fun times hanging out with the guy. Is it gonna make it weird if I already know I will not have sex with him no matter what, but thinking about making out? Is making-out gonna make everything worse?
2006-11-28 15:52:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Don't do it...leave it alone. It's just wrong to lead someone on when you're just not into him like that. If you kiss him he's gonna want more (of course) and you don't want to push it that far. After you too kiss it's gonna be awkward because then it's like where do you go from there? How will you see each other as? Theres gonna be too many questions left unanswered and you don't want that. Just spare yourself the time and energy and forget about it. If it's never going to work out, move on and be with someone who it will work out with.
2006-11-28 16:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by *Im Your Wifeys Role Model* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not pathetic, but it is not very caring. Human decency dictates that you do not lead this guy on. Physical attraction only never leads to anything but someone's feelings being hurt. It is just not fair to use a person or thier feelings for you.
2006-11-28 23:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by lynette g 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It could. Maybe you should make it clear that you're friends before you do it. At the same time, if you're not "together", it doesn't matter. Maybe to him. But that's not your problem. I guess it depends on what type of person you are.
2006-11-28 23:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by pilljills 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be very careful. You don't know if he will become possessive and then it can get alot more complicated knowing that he feels more for you than you for him.
How would you feel if a guy you really fell for treated you like that?
2006-11-29 00:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men are different then us. They think about sex more than what we do. If it don't matters to you to him it does, don't play with his feelings. you never know you might end up having sex after all.just go prepared YOU NEVER KNOW!!
2006-11-28 23:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Iram 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its only gonna make him want you more. Do what you gotta do but spare his feelings.
2006-11-28 23:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by Bexx 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
do whatever the **** you want, people need to stop with the double standard ****, guys do it all the time, do whatever floats you boat
2006-11-29 01:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by kristen 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats leading him on and leads to heartbreak
2006-11-28 23:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by barrelracer12 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
you poor thing....you must be what, 13. don't worry so much, and don't get sooooo serious.
2006-11-28 23:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by rere 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
your gonna look like a whore don't do it
2006-11-28 23:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by Luis 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋