Okay ladies. If you were working at Mrs. Field's one night and a guy came in around your age and bought a cookie or something, and then asked what time you were getting off your shift because he'd like to take you to a movie after your shift, what would you say?
And would you rather him say he would like to or ask if you would like to see a movie?
2006-11-28 15:32:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
its not rare to meet a person at random places like that, but listen to your gut. I once met a guy at starbucks, and i went out with him a few times, but something just didnt feel right about the guy, my gut was telling me that something was just off. So i stopped seeing him. If you do decided to go out on a date with this guy make sure you go somewhere public where there will be alot of people. Also make sure your friends and parents know where you are. You should have someone call you to check up about mid way through the date, and casually mention that you told your parents where you were going, this way he knows someone knows where you are and is waiting for you to come home. Better safe then sorry, he might end up being a super nice guy, but you can never be too carefull.
2006-11-28 16:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know this person? Have you ever spoken to her before? If the answer to these questions is no, you need to rethink this.
I would never go out with someone I didn't know that just walked in and asked me out like that. Never.
Start a light conversation, when things are slow, and not for long because she is working. Give her your phone number and say you 'd like to talk more. If she calls, then you can carry that further.
Yes, you should 'ask' not make it sound like you have her evening planned for her without her say. Ask if she'd like to go to a movie. But, I'd like to suggest something different. You can't get to know someone watching a movie.
Ask her out for coffee, you will have a chance to get to know each other. If that goes well, you can ask her out to lunch or dinner. The idea is; get to know this person.
2006-11-28 23:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no problelm with meeting someone that way, but a movie is too much for someone you don't know at all. Go out for coffee or some ice cream and talk. Ask lots of qestions. Take it slow. Be very careful with strangers. You never know these days.
2006-11-28 23:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋