are we ready to let it go or just because of ego we tend to let go even we if we can't.
2006-11-28 15:28:29 · 6 answers · asked by baby_04ever 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I don't think you are ever ready to let go of that "special some one." You may think you are but when it actually happens you realize you were never ready.
For example: My grandmother passed away last year from terminal cancer. I knew she was going to pass away and I thought I had mentally gotten to the point where I was ready to let her go. However- when she actually did pass away I was devastated. I thought she had passed away too soon- I didn't have enough time... and so on. No matter how much I thought I accepted what her fate was- when it came down to it- I was never ready.
That is just my experience with letting go of a special person due to death. Your experience might be with a relationship- each case is different.
I wish you luck with what you are going through. Remember- time heals all wounds. Alright well maybe not heals- but things do get easier as time goes on.
2006-11-28 15:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting go of that special someone can feel like a death.
And yes, i believe that some do it because of ego.
2006-11-29 11:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by naturegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you realize that it is better for the other person and/or for you to let go you can usually come around to realizing that it is time. Sometimes its only better for the other person if you let them go, but if you love them you'll do what you need to do to do what is right for them.
I think of the line in Diana Ross' song, "Its My Turn", where she says, "So I'll let it rain 'cause the rain ain't gonna hurt me, and I'll let you go, though I know it won't be easy."
If its time to let go just remember that the rain ain't gonna hurt you.
2006-11-29 01:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only your heart will tell you that,it's not always easy you have to look at the future with the other person ask ask if you want to let go or not.sometimes the person will always hold a special place in your heart that won't ever go away if you do have that feeling of always having feeling of the other person count yourself lucky for having those feelings and hold them dear to your heart.
2006-11-28 23:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by tesla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very personal decison... and it really varies from case to case!
But sometimes it is better to let go than to hold on to something that is not working out. Often what we are holding on to is just an illusion of what we want it to be ...
It is a universal truth ... relationships blossom and realtionships die out... and we mature with each failed relationship!
So honey,,, it is really up to you to decide!
2006-11-28 23:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you may be staying with them for habitual reasons then it may be time to release them.
2006-11-28 23:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋