HELPPPP!!!!am in love with a muslim girl?

Question

i love this muslim girl soo much,i cant get her out of my mind,we meet up every tuesday (as a friends),she doesnot know that am a lesbian ofcourse coz i know that muslim r very strict but i know that she is not very religious,she doesnot go to mosque,she doesnot pray but she wears the scarf..i dont know what i should do,i mean am soo nervous if i tell her about my feelings then she would tell her bros about me and they gonna kick my *** and i will never be able to see her again...plzz i need advice

Answer 1

i'd fall for someone else.

all this is gonna do is end up getting you her both hurt if you tell her how you feel.

islam is notoriously uptight about sex. not only will her brothers come after you, her father will probably go after her.

just steer clear of this girl---find someone else.

Answer 2

Well, I guess you could pretedt to be straight around her and just be miserable never knowing what could have been. Or you could out yourself and work on building an honest relationship with her. Then possibly you might be able to ask her out. It's really up to you if you want to try the safe road and just be friends or try for something more.

Answer 3

You are gonna tell her and then what? It's not gonna lead to any thing. Because most Muslim girls usually hang around girls, it is kinda hard to say which one is a lesbian. I doubt she would do as much as to tell her brothers though. Especially if she is a good friend. But you might drift apart, knowing majority of the Muslim population's views on homosexuality. Best not to do any thing and just move on, if you distance your self from her, slowly you will loosen the bond making it easier to let go.

Answer 4

I knew a Muslim in school. She was actually the first person I came out to. Start out asking her what she thinks of gays. If that goes well, tell her who you are. And if that goes well she may just tell you she is gay as well or she'll tell you that she will be your freind but, she's not interested. Good luck.

Answer 5

I don't know what to say. The consensus is that homosexuality is a sin in Islam. However, everything God creates is wonderful. I would ask her, if that's what you really want. But, don't continue in a false relationship, it doesn't help anyone.

Answer 6

I wasnt aware that muslims were against homosexuals, I thought it was only christians, which I dont agree with.

But if you truly love this girl tell her and if she goes and tells her brothers about you and they kick your **** then shes not worth it is she? or you could ask her how she feels about homosexuality and depending on her response then gauge your next move on her answer.
Sorry I can't help more.

Answer 7

There is love, lust and obsession. True love is about _doing_ for others and sometimes that means not putting them in a bad position about _your_ feelings. Why not just have that pure love for her and letting go of the physical and obsessive aspects of desire for her and then both of you can always be happy with each other.

Answer 8

Well, you should tell her how you really feel. I don't know if this is the right time in your relationship, but you will have to tell her eventually. And she will find our eventually. Also, I would talk to a trusted friend about this if I were you.

Answer 9

I am muslim, and my family is against me being a lesbian, and have since disowned me. maybe u should ask her of her opinion of gays, and lesbians, and go from there.

Answer 10

Salat-l-Istikhara

Not sure if you are Muslim as well, but thought that this might help =)

Good luck!