or do you have to keep you sexual neglect to yourself?
2006-11-28 14:54:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it's people that I'm close with, I'd probably tell them. Sometimes getting advice from someone outside the situation helps.
2006-11-28 14:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is an old but very apt saying that applies to a situation like this: dirty laundry should get washed at home. Never share information like that with outside people because it is none of their business. If you are having problems, you need to talk to your husband and work it out. The problem with telling family/friends is that they will still remember what you told them (and possibly hold it against your hubby) long after it has ceased to be a problem.
2006-11-28 17:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by Smart_ca_latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. I cannot tell my family because they cannot keep their mouth shut, but I do trust some of my friends.
I get more results from my friends than family.
I have this problem myself, and I know exactly what you are talking about.
If a person has not been in this situation, then they do not know how a person really feels.
2006-11-28 15:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definately try talking to someone about this. A person in this situation must feel strange bottling it up and i'm sure people would understand the situation more than you think. However, I'm not suggesting you talk to anyone about this. Talk to someone that you trust and feel will understand.
2006-11-28 15:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by ally 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
If you respect that person then say nothing. If you care one iota about thier feelings then really you shouldnt say anything. Put yourself in thier shoes. Would you want anyone to speak bad of you inre: your relationships?
Take care-
Cat
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2006-11-28 15:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by CatLambe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you could tell but, why would you? it's not something everyone needs to know it's a issue that should be delt with in the marriage or thru a counslor not gosip to anutie anne
2006-11-28 14:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your friends or families business unless you are planning on leaving him Sounds like he might have another ....does he go on trips or have questionable time away? Hunting ,Business trips Erectile Dysfunction Most guys don't turn down sex!!!
2006-11-28 15:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep it to yourself and seek some kind of councilling and sort it out.
the bad news is that usually when a husband does not want to have sex with his wife,is because he got somebody else.
this is sad but true ,be prepared to handle that
2006-11-28 15:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can tell if you like personally i do not talk to my family when my husband has went through stints of not wanting sex but i do talk to my best friend about it
2006-11-28 15:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because my sexual activity (good or bad) is none of their business.
2006-11-28 14:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋