theres this girl who said i stare at her when i don't and her other friend said i stare at her but the only reason i looked at her is because she was looking at me. my friends who i met this year who i sit with in lunch and i think my friends are friends with those girls. and those girls sit behind my table. and im afraid to sit in lunch because of those girls im afraid that they might tell my friends that i stare at them and stuff like that and im afraid my friends will think i am wierd and not want to talk to me. What do I do ? im so scared !
2006-11-28 13:33:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i don't stare at them they just say that for some reason.
2006-11-28 13:40:43 · update #1
one of the girls who thinks i stare ((when i don't)) i was outside spray painting my old shoes(a project for fashion) and i saw a girl coming out of the door and i thought it was a girl from my class and i looked to see who it was and it was that girl who thinks i stare and i was really out of it and i stared at her till she was gone and she was looking at me like the wtf? but it sucks becaues i was so out of it and i never do that! is it a big deal? to worry about this happened last week. will she talk about me to her friends? this is a girl who says i stare at her when i don't.
2006-11-28 13:48:54 · update #2
First if one is in trouble or scared or anything one should always pray. If you have any relationship with God, He is our best friend and can protect you better than anyone. If you don't have a relationship with Him I suggest you get rite on it because that is all we really have in this world ultimately. He has many names Krishna, Allah, Jehovah, Rama, Vishnu, etc. His name is non different then Him so when you call on His name He is directly present. He is sitting in your heart but you have to call Him. Read Bhagavad-Gita As it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada it will show you how to get rid of all fear and take shelter of God and understand Him.
2006-11-28 13:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey Exoticx3!!
I think you should determine if your friends are really your friends!! Regardless if they hang with you, they may be more loyal to the rival girls you are currently having issues with. When you and your so-called friends are alone somewhere, let them know what's going on without sounding like your talking sheesh about them dumb girls!! (in case they go back and tell!!) Just say something to the effect of: "Are you guys friends with that group of girls? If so, I have no issues with them but they somehow seem to think that I've been staring at them or have a staring problem since I happened to turn around just to catch the eye of one of them already staring". You may want to let your friends know that you don't have any problems or issues with these girls so that anything that is said, won't go back to those dumb-*** girls sounding like you are talking smack!! That way, if anything IS said, you have not said anything that would even try to come back and bite you in the *** AND maybe your friends have already talked to those girls about you and they might say what those girls are really trippin' about. Just don't let your guard down even if it is your friends. You never know what your friends are really about!!
2006-11-28 13:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jacquie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my 30's now but when I was in high school some b*tches did this sh*t to me too and you know what I did? I let them get to me. Reading your post took me right back to cafeteria where these nasty girls would just pick on anybody for any reason. Your number is up this week, thats all.
Don't do what I did - I let them intimidate me til I cried (and I was 6 feet tall). (God I hate those b*tches.) DONT let them freak you out. Try, really hard, to rise above it. Just say "whatever" or don't answer at all. Your friends know you and know these girls are just pigs. If you act cool so will they. If you shiver in your boots then they'll attack. Try to be cool and if worse comes to worse, they jump you, be prepared. Read up on how to defend yourself. I'm sorry you have to go through this but go through it with knowledge and strength - I didn't have the web back in 1983. You're lucky.
Good luck.
: )
2006-11-28 13:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look well i am a boy so it may be a little diffrent
i am probbably guessing your in you late middle school and highschool years
i myself am in high school
your friends would never do that to you unless they are truly not your frineds it dosnt matter people say crud about me
i used to get really ticked at them but i have learned to put up with the new crap that comes onto me everyday
don't show that you are ignoring
my facoritwe word to use when they say that to me is a bored sounding "whatever" they stop for a while until they get something new use on me.
i am sure things won't differ in your case
2006-11-28 13:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop staring at them and try to get a different table. If you think your friends will stop talking to you for something this stupid, maybe you need new friends.
2006-11-28 13:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Wishful Writer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...mayb u should talk 2 this girl and say "hey! i knw u think i stare at ure butt and stuff, but i dont." and mayb say a little complement. mayb shell listen. try 2 catch ureself staring. u might b a bit nosy. :) no offense. :)
2006-11-28 13:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Bleed!ng Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off all there girl hmmm hello there bitchy...
just move away and if ur friends think your wierd than there not really truley your friend,just move away and ignore them they have nothing better to do than cause drama
2006-11-28 13:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you say something like...Oh my gosh I have noticed that you have the most beautiful hair....or to the other girl you always have the cutest make-up on....something to make them think that you looked at them b/c you admire something...
2006-11-28 13:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stand up 4 urself and kick some a**
2006-11-28 13:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like "onlylonely,s" reply..turn it into conversation and put it behind you
2006-11-28 13:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋