Why is this happening? @ school i have a few friends (both girls and guys). I'm in a couple of class that are full with girls. All of my friends at school aren't really the best looking and they are easy to talk to. I mean I feel comfortable talking to them. But why is it that everytime I'm near with pretty girls, i get soo shy and I mean shy that I'm not myself, I don't talk at all. Whats wrong with me? I'm still figuring out this whole sexuality thing and crushing on girls. Why is it that I feel comfortable and myself when I'm around with not so pretty girls, but can't say a word when I'm around the pretty ones? I usually start the conversation and usually make the 1st move of making friends, but when I'm around pretty girls, I can never say a word. Why??!! I AM NOT GAY! I swear!! lol
I don't consider myself ugly or near ugly, i've gottin a lot of compliments about my Beauty actually. what
PS. it's weird though that some girls @ school look @ me a lot. :|
Candy, New York
2006-11-28 13:26:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
dearie i went through the same thing with this group of girls in highschool. they were pretty, popular and they wer all the dream girl type with straight a+ gpa and every one wanted to be them. and i was pretty smart as well so i got put in the same class as them for 12th grade calc. and i had the same problem as you, around them i couldnt think of anything good to say my mind always drew a blank. and i got all miffed too. finally after a looong time i figured out that although i have no selfesteem probs and i know im pretty my mind had aldready put htese girls on a platform on my mind because of what other people said and i couldint act normmaly around them. but this was after i graduated so i never got to make friends, shame. but dont worry you arent lesbian or bi (not that it is bad)
my advice is to start thinking of them as normal people same as your friends
2006-11-28 14:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess some guys are like them. Make an effort. Do the best you can. We all have to overcome something.
2006-11-28 13:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by fruit salad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self-confidence
Low self-esteem
2006-11-28 13:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋