For the last couple of months I've been doing some soul searching. Replaying my life, and I found it not what I've thought it would turn out like. I know noone always get what they want, and life takes twists and turns, but somehow I thought it would end better than what it has.
I know some people are born with bad luck, and this year alone has to be litteary the worst year in my life.
But I've done things in my life I'm not proud of, and now I feel I'm paying for them. I hurt a lot of people growing up and made a lot of bad decisions.
So, how do you forgive yourself for things you can't change, knowing it was you that caused them?
2006-11-28 13:12:27 · 6 answers · asked by peacefulwreck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OMFG it's the story of my life. The only thing u can do is apoligize to the ones u hurt then try and foget about it. I know easier said then done but u have 2 sometime.
2006-11-28 13:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by vampsshallruleagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not the best at giving advice but i know exactly what your talking about, though im still growing up, i've made some huge mistakes that have also hurt others and you cant change those things that you did, but you can learn from them and help urself in the future..realizing you made mistakes was a huge step and now all you have to do is learn from them, which i think you have since it seems that u've repented, and just move on with life knowing you wont make those mistakes again...i really hoped i help cuz i kind of just helped myself right now in a way..hmm
2006-11-28 21:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you religious beliefs but when I felt as though the world was against me and I really wanted to kill myself. I found a quiet place in my home and prayed and cried until I couldn't do either so your human you will hit a hard time in your life. And you'll be back on top again. Because that's where I'm at right now on top of my game smiling everyday even if someone pissed me off. I smile and it makes me feel so much better about myself. My advice do something that will make you happy. And having a good friend in you corner doesn't hurt at all.
2006-11-28 21:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by DADDYS' GIRL 4LF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, I've done a lot of bad things in the past (I was a bully growing up). The best way to deal with this is to learn from it and change yourself, so you wont do them again. If you learn from your mistakes and don't make them again, then you shouldn't feel bad about it.
2006-11-28 21:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Nick T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn from your past, don't dwell in it. Perhaps in order to forgive yourself, you need to ask forgiveness of those you have hurt. Life is not about good luck or bad luck, it is what you make it. I too have had a very bad year, but we must pick ourselves up, brush ourselves off, and move forward. We only get one life, make it count.
2006-11-28 21:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try finding the ppl you hurt and tell them how srry you are. everybody makes mistakes, im sure they will understand. if you cant get a hold of them tell their parenst or family member how srry you are tell them tht if you had a chance you would go back and make it better but you cant so u want to try and make up 4 it. i wishs u bests of luck!
2006-11-28 21:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by = )Chloe( = 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋