quit drinking,now i am trying to make amends to my lady.not that i was abusive,but the the drinking got between me and her.her and i still talk on the phone weekly and have gotten past the sorry stage and back on how are you more or less.i would like hear any suggestions on how to proceed from here.
2006-11-28 13:01:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Make plans to get together for dinner or just to hang out.
2006-11-28 13:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by r_finewood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations for recognizing your past flaws! Now all you need to do is reassure her that you are genuinely a changed man. The abuse will still haunt her as well as the drinking problems of the past. Give both of yourselves time to recuperate from the traumatic past. Time heals all things. Don't rush just continue to take things slowly one day at a time for the best results.
2006-11-28 21:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by MommaMia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yey for you to quit drinking ! abuse is very hard to get over ! keep going forward & good luck ! love is patient !
2006-11-28 21:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE THERE FOR HER AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOUR TAKING THIS ONE DAY AT A TIME AND SO FAR YOUR DOING OK. GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-28 21:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋