im 13 i live in AJ and i have a crying disability.i lost my mom,dad,sister,and grandpa and my "friend" slaped me and he made my hear ring for like 10 min, and yesterday i had surgery on my ear. so then he called me a pussy and sat there acted like a baby to get me mad but its ****** up the more he did that the more it made me think about my family. then i came home told my cousin that my "friend" needed him(which he did). so he goes there and my "friend" called me a crybaby....but i cant help it and i dont know what to do plz help!!!P.S. im a boy
2006-11-28 12:53:35 · 5 answers · asked by haha1010 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
This doesn't sound like a very good friend at all. Do you really need a "friend" who makes fun of you like that when you are in obvious crisis?
We all deal with loss in our own way. Crying is an appropriate response to this sort of crisis.
Do you have an adult you can confide in? Someone that you trust. Perhaps a teacher, guidance counselor or even a relative.
You need to reach out to someone who can help you get through this hard time.
And as far as being a boy and crying--- Even big men cry. I would never be ashamed of that.
"Feelings are neither right or wrong, they just ARE."
Good luck to you.
2006-11-28 13:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you do not have a crying disability. Any human being on the planet who didn't cry after all that would be a jerk or a very messed up, sad, pathetic person. What you have is a "friend" disability. This "friend" is a moron who's probably so afraid to show any emotion that he bullies people who do. Plus, you've already seen that he's dangerous. Get rid of the "friend" and don't let anybody tell you you don't or shouldn't have feelings.
2006-11-28 13:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what..there is nothing wrong with crying..trust me..im a girl and from my perspective, i like when a guy crys..it shows he cares and has feelings..my boyfriend is 19 and crys sometimes and i find it really attractive..so go ahead and cry if you have to
2006-11-28 12:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by mariam a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry i hope soon u will get over it ssooo sorryand just cry let it out dont care what he says
2006-11-28 12:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE HE'S NO FRIEND TO YOU. TRY TO JUST STAY AWAY FROM HIM. IF WOULD HELP ALSO IF YOU WERE IN SOME FORM OF GRIEF COUNSELING. IT'S HELPED ME BEFORE. HOPE YOU'LL BE DOING BETTER.
2006-11-28 12:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋