Some of my female friends are unhappy when they see a black man with a white woman. This doesnt bother me. When I tell them Im fine with it, they jump on me for having my own opinion. I believe you can date and marry who you want to if it makes you happy . Its not my place to judge. Its not just my friends, my mother is the same way. Do some women get mad because they can't have that man and they are secretly jealous or what? What is the big problem?
2006-11-28 12:48:02 · 8 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
its weird because my friends will date white guys but be mad if its the other way around.
2006-11-28 12:51:49 · update #1
If it makes a black guy happy to date only women in his lifetime, thats great for him, if he is content, then why get mad? And vice versa, why does it offend you? Alot of times it really isnt about looks or money or trying to show off. More power to you. If you're happy, i'm happy.
2006-11-29 01:18:35 · update #2
No one belongs to anyone, we are not anyone's property. So I dont think black men belong to me or us in anyway.
2006-11-29 01:20:48 · update #3
jealousy
2006-11-28 13:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by boobhead 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i know why some black women get mad(SOME!): it's because.....well.......a lot of times(not all the time), when a black man dates a white woman, it's because he thinks white women are better and he does it to show off. especially black guys who date white women a majority of the time. some black guys JUST date white women. for what reason? i mean, if i'm black im a feel more comfortable with someone of my race. that's just me. i can relate with this person more than i can relate with a white person. but again, that's just me. so yea, my opinion. great question!
2006-11-28 15:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Raven's Shadow 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My mother does not hate black men who go out with white girls she just hates if they go out with nothing but white women. EX= Lionel Ritchie,O.J Simpson. Personally I don't think it is wrong to go with a different race, as long as they treat you right.
2006-11-28 13:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by Dominique(G-9) 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
They want their men to themselves. It is only natural. It is the same as wanting affection from a family member. If your family showed love to someone else not related and ignored you how would you feel?
2006-11-28 13:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by sicilianchick 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know they would say this "There is a shortage of good black men, and white women are trying to take them all."
2006-11-28 12:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter who's with who as long as those in the relationship are happy and treating each other right.
2006-11-28 12:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by Violante 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are just jealous that he doesn't want them. I guess they are so insecure that they are threatened by the fact that she isn't black... they also must be racist.
2006-11-28 12:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by incubabe 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
they are probably just jeolous
2006-11-28 13:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by karamel 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋