The boy I am going out with now, is my x. He treats me like a princess, but when he says he's going 2 e-mail me, he's 2 busy doing other things. What should I do?
2006-11-28 12:22:37 · 38 answers · asked by wise girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Trust that he had something more important to do than email you at that current time. If he treats you great like you said give him some slack and not fret over a missed email he diserves more credit than that. Maybe if you try treating him like a prince he'll notice you pay attention to his kind efforts and will do more for you. He sounds like a good guy, little things shouldn't erase the big ones hope i helped good luck :-)
2006-11-28 12:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you say that he's your ex? Doesn't that mean that you broke up with him once already? Why did you break up in the first place? Are the issues still there? Is he specific when he says he's too "busy"? Does he tell you what these things are? Only you know him. All of us out here don't know who he is or what he's like. So only you can answer that question. Trust is an essential part of any relationship, and if you don't have that, then you might as well not have a relationship.
2006-11-28 12:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by natofield 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well having some wat of the same problem, test them. Now schedule times for e-mail and etc. if he attends all A+. Now, treat him like ur best friend does he treat u the way u wanna b treated. If yes A+. C if he likes u like a gf+bf. If yes A+. Now, if he gets all a's trust him but w/ one slip u will never no wat a boy is gonna do. At this point with out u doin the test i would not think he exeeds to b trusted. Maybe there is someone else out there waiting for u. U still hav time girl. DO NOT GIV UP! Trisl and error u may eaven wanna start lookin at somebody else if so. Hope this works out and hope i helped. THANKS!
2006-11-28 12:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by M&M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is your ex for a reason. Did he do these things before? If he hasnt changed then you should keep him as some one you are going out with. I am sure that there has been time when he is busy does he have a job. Give him time to email you if thats the only thing he doesnt do and you are getting the royal treatment from him you sound a little spoiled or are you being selfish and want all his time?
2006-11-28 12:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not have time to always talk to you, e-mail you, come on i think its better if you guys talk on phone you know what I mean. But i believe trust him, why not. DO IT!, yet again i can't tell you who to trust and who not to. Whats the worst he can be doing talking to a girl, they could just be friends. That's the problem with most relationships these days, you people have to have more trust in each other.
2006-11-28 12:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, trust takes time... Please take my advise, I have had ALOT of experience with trust. Even if they say that, be cautious...boys can say something and not mean it. I went out with guys that said they loved me and then they said they never did. So just cause he says something doesn't mean it is always true. Trust take time, and he has to earn it ESPECIALLY when couples break up. If you aren't confident with him and don't feel like he is the one and as if you are just waisting your time with him, then I suggest you move on while you still have you dignity.
Good Luck and God Bless
2006-11-28 12:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by sogullablegurly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever ever trust a boy. When a boy truly becomes a man then you can trust him.
2006-11-28 12:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by questioningly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..not all boys r bad..mayb u juz need 2 listen..giv him some time..mayb things can work out..u shud noe..boys will b boys..but treating u like a princess...well..thats a keeper!
2006-11-28 12:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by fater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him their are plenty other fish in the sea. You will experience alot of boys in your life. Some need the chop and some could be caring too.
2006-11-28 12:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by kim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go our with friends. Have a good time. You say he's "my ex" well make it permanent. You are young and play the field. No use tying yourself down to a guy who does not appreciate you.
Get going' Gal.
2006-11-28 12:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋