I mean when you still have not done the married and kids bit?
2006-11-28 12:19:56 · 13 answers · asked by tricia l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Relationships have various stages. You're probably in the comfortable stage now, and sex isn't the most important thing anymore. Also, one's sex drive has ups and downs (so to speak). I wouldn't worry unless it is causing stress on your relationship.
You could always do something to spice it up a bit. Sometimes it does get mundane. That doesn't mean it's bad ... just not mind-blowing sex like it is at the beginning.
2006-11-28 12:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lady J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because your sex with them has become routine and therefore stale..try new things and new experiences. Don't be afraid to get ideas from books and websites. I've had more lovers than i can sometimes remember and i still can run out of ideas of my own. I have also had long term girlfriends where the sex got old becuase that's all we really did..find ways to show love without sex and make the sex special when you do have it.
2006-11-28 21:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a serious issue that you must talk with a doctor.
You must provide ALL details of your Childhood experiences related to sexual activities of yourself and your parents that you might was a witness and the boys that were with you for short time.
ALSO you must explain in detail HIS sexual behaviors with you, such as 'harsh', unnatural', 'painful', 'disgusting', 'forceful', 'pushy'., 'rushy', 'contemptuous', 'unkind' etc.
Each of said factor has sufficient weight that a woman hate sex for her LIFE. Asked seniors, they may tell you that they did not had sex since they were 14 or 16 as a guy had abused them.
SO, the lost of interest, even for senior men and women is not acceptable clinically. It is illness, like many other illnesses and must have Professional Care!
2006-11-28 20:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You guys have gotten comfortable with each other. Try doing new things together (not just sexual things). Sometimes spending time together doing things that you never thought would interest you causes helps develop a closeness that can lead to more intimacy.
2006-11-28 20:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
same old same old can get a bit dull maybe?
dosent mean you dont love the person though just need to spice things up a bit
2006-11-28 20:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by skidleypoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't all about sex , there are many other ways to show that you love someone.
2006-11-28 20:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uh...I think it more commonly happens the other way around- you lose the love you once felt, but still want the sex.
2006-11-28 20:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by radioflyer 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
One thing at a time. You pour a glass of chocolate soda, you don't dump the contents onto the table.
2006-11-28 20:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Simply because you are bored. Try something new. No really, it's not that hard. Otherwise, you or your partner might try someone new.
2006-11-28 20:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by benitocapulet 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be invovled in it before marriage.
2006-11-28 20:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋