2006-11-28 12:02:21 · 27 answers · asked by cutecoral1 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I know where your coming from. I was 16 when i had my baby and its really scary. I didnt want to tell my mom because it was easier just to tell my friends and i thought my mom would freak out. BUT I ended up telling her and now my daughter is 2 and my mom is very supportive. If you cant tell your mom in person, try writing her a letter, or getting someone else you trust to tell her with you. YOu can do this. i know its scary and you feel really confused right now. But for your own sake tell your mom. or someone you trust. It will be okay. GOOD LUck
xxoxo
2006-11-28 12:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say tell your parents, but everyone else beat me to it. I guess you must be feeling pretty frightened right about now. A little unsure what to do. Hesitant maybe. The dung is gonna hit the fan you know this right? Just be brave. Decide what you want for yourself and your future. Talk with your parents when you are confident and comfortable. But make it soon. Best of luck
2006-11-28 21:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by exaluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you was to young to be having sex. Since your pregnant now you should keep your child and finish school and be the best mother you can be to your child. Do not let no one get you down and your head up and walk pride with your child and get all the education you can. My mother also got pregnant when she was 12 but she made it all on her own with no help from her baby father or her family. So just take care of your child. I believe in you.
2006-11-29 08:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Creshonna P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do u mean what should u do? gez ur 12 kid u aint even a teen and ur havin sex.. holy.. wait till ur MARRIED !!
tell ur rents and u should be sorry man
not to put u down but i bet that after u have this baby ur guna do it again!
what u shouldnt do is have an abortion. cuz thats WrONG
so either keep the baby or give it up for adoption.. i recommend keeping it!
you have to deal with the consequences.. so next time think before u act.
2006-11-29 14:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG. NO ABORTION!!!<33 don't do that. No offense but you made the mistake in getting pregnant. It isn't right to kill someone because of that.
ADOPTION!!! i was adopted. You could even do an open adoption. where you could still see your child. But someone else would be taking care of her. Just please no abortion. And don't get pregnant again. Honey your parents are going to find out sometime. Like when you start the stomach and have the baby. Just tell them now. It won't be as upsetting. JUST NO ABORTION!!!
good luck. <3
2006-11-28 20:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what?? you're only 12 and pregnant?? well dear, you have to tell your parents. I don't belive in abortion so I wouldn't tell you to go that route.
here's the tough part, money! you can have your mom take care of your baby while you finish up school. right now you're too young to get a job (must be 16 to work). perhaps public assistance can be of help if you go with your parents. and your doctor will be very supportive if you follow their indications. also there's WIC...believe me it's a lifesaver...I had wic with my daughter and saved hundreds and hundreds of dollars, while consuming great healthy foods.
remember, tell your parents or a family member, take good care of yourself and follow your doctors orders.
2006-11-28 20:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by alizelatina41 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is important that you go to the doctor, regardless of your decision. Definitely talk to your parent/guardian about it. That is the first step. Then you can contact your school, church, or local YMCA to connect with a counselor who can give you unbiased information and help you make the right decisions. Good luck!!!
2006-11-28 20:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider adoption. You have a lot of life ahead of you and would enjoy high school and college without having a baby to raise. There are so many couples out there that are looking to have children. You can do the best thing and care for this baby through these 9 months and give him/her to a loving family.
2006-11-28 20:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by TH087 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You're still not too late to have an abortion, and unless your parents are die-hard fire-and-brimstone conservative stiffs, they'll be glad to get that little mess cleaned out of you after some mean lectures (you earned 'em). I'm generally on that liberal stance of do what you like, but learn some strategies to not get caught or stuck with consequences. I'd think a little young body would make it miscarriage, but don't rely on your extreme youthfulness to make the abortion for you
2006-11-28 20:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by Nate L 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
wow..please tell your parents they will help you better then anyone else. if you dont trust them then tell an adult. my friend she is 15 and pregnanct and hasnt told her parents but she did tell her aunt. no her aunt takes her to the clinic and she has to take medication so that baby will be born safely. try telling someone who can help you.
good luck. =]
2006-11-28 20:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by ♠<>♥<> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋