i tried aplogizing through emails and also by talking to her in person but she doesnt reply the emails or talk to me at all. my friend suggested that i left her alone for a while to see if she will forget about it, but ive tried that and she still is ignoring me . what should i do??
2006-11-28 11:54:18 · 16 answers · asked by lasertiger008 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Two words.
Dog.
House.
Good news: no-one stays in there too long.
Next time you see her, give her a "woof woof"
2006-11-28 11:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Up your Maslow 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You obviously crossed the line concerning your friend.A requirement of friendship is that the friend knows the other person and knows What NOt to Tease about. It's Obvious you've deeply hurt her feelings. Stop the E-Mails for although its the Techno Age still rather impersonal. Go to a Card store and find a Card about being sorry that you goofed and write a apology letter to be put into the card. You might(if this friendship is important to you)buy a little gift to express gratitude for the friendship that she has given you and that you are asking for her to forgive your blunder and that you would really like to have her as friend again. And that's the extend of what you can do -if she accepts the apology and wants to continue the friendship then she will contact you.If she does not-you've just learned a life lesson -that teasing hardly ever has a good outcome for the definition is to make fun of, mock-even if playfully, teasing is hardly ever a nice thing to do. Also did you not notice as you were teasing that she was not laughing or were you too busy laughing at her expense.
2006-11-28 12:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how well the friendship was and on what you teased her about, you should wait a couple of weeks and than talk to her, when this happens set some ground rules as to what u guys expect from each other and try not to cross the line. In my case i joked around with my good friend about us hooking up and stuff and she took it serious, i was joking but that's not the way she took it, i would call and she never returned my calls, than i stopped and didn't call for about three weeks, after that i finally got the chance to talk to her and she told me that she hadn't called because she thought i was serious, and she didn't want to get involved. After that things were not the same, so it depends on what u did to ur friend, but i suggest that if you care about the friendship u should definitely set some ground rules as to what u can and cant do.
2006-11-28 12:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by droadrunner04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I the in straight forward words human being who doesn't examine solutions through those who haven't got a touch blue guy next to them? besides, re: your question - the better intense something is the a lot less intense I take it. I truly have an inverted mind-set. Funerals might want to be humorous, dammit! you ought to snicker about getting fired. despite the indisputable fact that, dropping the taxi receipt and dreading having to justify why you ought to get reimbursed $15 no matter if you haven't got a receipt - that is what keeps me up at evening.
2016-10-07 22:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what im not suprised that he orshe isnt talking to you!!!! my ex friend does the same thing! it really hurts me inside! i already have enought presure being the new slightly uncool kid and to make new friends! and she waznt helping! it just plain made me feel crapy. send her a nice email telling her what you just asked in this question. that our sry and if u ever offend her again than she can tell you. Just dont tease! ok i know this is a little rude but how would u like it if i cam out of this computer and started making u of you? i wouldnt feel good would it? thats probly how yor friends feels!....
bye
2006-11-28 12:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, she needs some time to cool down. After about a day has gone by, go up to her and say, "I'm really sorry. Can we be friends again? I promise not to tease you anymore..." Also maybe draw her a picture that says "SORRY!" on it in colorful letters. And if that doesn't work, find a new friend.
2006-11-28 11:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some times people take things way too seriously.. If I were you I would write her a letter explaining what you were doing and tell her that you want to remain friends and when she is ready to talk you will listen over a cup of coffee, Just tell her you did mean to hurt her in any way and mean it! Good luck sweetie
2006-11-28 11:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mark it up as 1 less friend. A person that can not take a joke and will not except an apology of any kind is not much of a friend and in my books would not be a friend of mine.
2006-11-28 12:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chalk it up to a stupid mistake you made and move on...emailing someone an apology though is pretty crass, if you can't face a person to apologize that makes the apology pretty insencere.
2006-11-28 11:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of teasing? If it was serious enough she may need some time to get over it. Apologize again and again and sincerely
2006-11-28 11:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it depends on what you were teasing her about. Leave it alone for a bit longer and then try again.
2006-11-28 11:57:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋