I think im pregnant,im 12 days late,i took a test and there was a very faint line.If i am this will make number 3 for me and my fiance,he doesnt want another baby,but i do.our oldest is 6 and youngest is only 6 months.I know its close,but i dont think i could have an abortion.can anybody help,or give me some good advice?i would really appreciate it.thanx
2006-11-28 11:38:53 · 6 answers · asked by carin1983 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you didn't plan it, then he's just going to have to deal with it like you did. If he truly loves you and your family, then he'll learn to live with it and support you no matter what. And, good decision on not having an abortion...there's already enough baby murderers out there as it is. Congrats on your pregnancy and I hope all works out well :-)
2006-11-28 11:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, I agree with you about no abortion, I couldn't live with myself.
I can see why your fiance doesn't want another, they are expensive, but it sounds as though you are pregnant.
So I can only say that you will both get used to the idea and he will love the baby when it comes along.
Would you consider any drastic measures concerning birth control once this baby is born? Like a coil or maybe even one of you being sterilised? I know its extreme but then there will be no more babies for sure.
If you live in the Hollywood, CA area I can babysit for you! hee hee
2006-11-28 19:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just have the baby and if your fiance was a good man he would take care of his kids. But do what feels right to you. I mean don't listen to your fiance b/c you are the one that has to have the baby not him. And until he starts being in labor and goin' through what you going to go threw he ain't got nothing to say about it. Good luck gurl. And just pray about it everything will be ok.
2006-11-28 19:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if there was a faint line and it appeared in the time period on the box then yes you are. Talk to your fiance about this and don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. I know from experience and I am going to leave it at that. Good luck with everything.
2006-11-28 19:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy To Be in April 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, take care of your sweet self. Go to the doctor as soon as possible. 6 months after giving birth is soon but you should be allright, my baby is only 4 months old and I would love to have another one soon. Take your guy out for dinner or something, take him to a nice place and give him the news. He didn't one more but now he's having one. Try to calm him down and tell him you're all gonna be allright, I know you will.
2006-11-28 19:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoption, if you can't do abortions. Someone posted here today asking about if anyone on the board wanted to put a baby up for adoption, you can do a search for it if you want.
2006-11-28 19:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by ANSWER MY QUESTION!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋