I am seriously really depressed right now and don't feel very well emotionally HELP?

Question

I get made fun of at school a lot & most of the time I just ignore it, but it's gettin worse, It's really gettin 2 me. The school doesn't care so I can't go 2 them. I also have lots of issues with my dad (parents have been divorced 4 8 years, so I live wit dad) and I'm just really sad right now. I don't know what to do. I know that this doesnt go in this section but I u guys and girls give really good advice. I feel like I'm basically breakin down mentally. please help. Even if u can make me laugh I would feel a liitle bit better.
Thanx.

Answer 1

Oh hon, I'm so sorry. Here's a virtual hug.*HUGZ*

Try to think about what you'd like your life to be like. Then think about the steps to take so that it gets there. There is no problem that can't be conquered, and all situations are only temporary. I promise things will get better.

What really helps me when I feel down is long walks. The exercise helps relieve stress, and the quiet, rhythymic time helps calm my thoughts.

I'd make funny faces at you but you can't see me!

Good luck, I hope you feel better.



Oh, and misspinkbox is reported. Let's see how superior she feels now.

Answer 2

I know the feeling, it can be depressing, How old are you. Parents have less time with the children these days than they did 7/8/10 etc years ago. It's a shame, I feel that is why many go off the rails.
I remember getting a cuddle and hug everymorning and night before going to bed from both parents. These days it's Hi and Goodbye, nothing more.
Okay this may not be what you want to hear, But do you play a sport of some kind. The best thing I can think of is to join a club of sorts one that has both boys and girls. They have some great outings and after school recreation. Also camping trips etc.
If your unable to make friends at school than join an outside community and make new friends outside of your immediate area.

That will help, join in and have some fun, life is too short.

Answer 3

Sweety beety purk up. Usually around the holidays people get down more so then the rest of the year. People make fun of you out of there own insecurities. School officials won't do anything unless it becomes so troublesome it starts violent. You may want to talk to your dad about everything thats going on. If your too uncomfortable about go to someone you can trust with all this. It doesn't have to be a head doctor. A close friend or an adult you can trust. For the moment to get those blues away do something fun for you. Put on your favorite song to lift your spirits and dance around the house in your undies. The next time those jerks come at you with mouth. Brush it off ya shoulders. They suck and remember this. They only do it cause deep down they are lower then scum. They konw it that's why they pick on you. Cause there is something cool about you they just can't stand. Smile boo it will be ok.

Answer 4

Some might say that you are suffering from soul sickness. The simplest and quickest thing that you can do is spend some time using visualization and meditation to help. Sit quietly for 3-5 minutes and relax. In your mind, picture yourself feeling happy and full of energy. See yourself in school, calm and at peace. Maybe see yourself surrounded by friends or at least see yourself having friendly, healthy interactions with other people. Next see you father, happy, loving and peaceful - just by himself to start, then visualize you 2 together and getting along well. The more clearly you can see and feel these images, the faster your change will happen.

Thoughts become things - choose the good ones and correct the bad ones. When you hear yourself having a negative thought, calmly say to yourself "No, that's right - here is how that thought should go". I mean, when you hear youself say "people stink" stop and say "no, people don't stink. I attract only wonderful people in my life - and lots of them!"

Peace!

Answer 5

I am outraged to hear of this and would like to be pro-active. I was bullied terribly in school and it was very traumatic.
I still suggest you go to a guidance counselor before you give up on asking help from the school staff. You could even write a letter to the editor about your school to the newspaper and that might put some pressure on them to make the school a safer place. My sister is a principal, and she has suggested this to others before.

It does get better, kiddo! Don't rob the world of what you have to give. In spite of tough times, we have to stick around and help each other to make the world a better place. Nobody promises it to be easy, but it will be worth it. The gay community needs you and all of us to grow and make a difference! Sometimes we are somebody's only opportunity to learn about being different and about acceptance. Good luck and thank-you for contributing this question!! Peace!

Answer 6

Hey T.J. I don't know how old you are...but it does get better. If the school doesn't care, does a counsellor? Or is there a teacher you can talk with? Someone you like? Go and tell them how you're feeling...not just about what's happening at school, but at home as well.

I know it's rough right now, but stick it out. Is there anything you like doing...or would like to learn how to do? You know, like karate, our art classes or writing lessons or horse riding? Ask your Dad if you can take some after school or weekend courses. It'll get you out of the house & put you someplace with people who have similar interests......this way you have a better chance of making some new friends.

Talk to someone and remember.....there are people out there who will want to get to know you.

Keep smiling my friend.

Answer 7

report your school to the police, file a report this way there is a record of things that go on. as for your home life,,try your best to find a group of friends that are supportive. get out and have fun laughing with them. find a hobby,i like the gym ,,when my mom got sick and was dying i was very depressed. i got into the gym to give me a place to go. and when i went back to take care of my mom, i was a better person. remember bro us gay people are very strong, we have thick skin,,don't give up. keep your head up. and if you need to chat sometimes email me.

Answer 8

we may be able to help more if we know what they are teasing you about. but even with that said school doesn't last for ever. then you can find the type people you want to be with and do what you like to do and won't have to deal with them anymore. don't worry things will get better

Answer 9

Try talking to a close friend. Listen to happy music. Google search "jokes." Umm distract yourself from reality for now. Do any thing to stay strong and whatever makes you feel better. It will pass.. trust me. As Gloria Gaynor says "I will survive" ^^

Answer 10

Wow, well i really wish i could help. Find a counselor. Tell your parents, maybe mom. Why do they make fun of you? Change what they make fun of you for, if you can. I really wish i could help more. You can e-mail me if you want to talk, yahoo messenger, or myspace.

Put a smile on..