2006-11-28 10:37:22 · 14 answers · asked by crislelesh@sbcglobal.net 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Well, let's take a step backward.
Are you babysitting or is this your child? If you're babysitting, you might want to consider discussing the parents of the child finding a sitter who would be able to handle the infant better. ask if you can observe the sitter. Friends who have infant siblings also are good resources to learn how to handle infants.
If you're the parent, just relax and take a deep breath first. First, asking parents of older children (especially several children) will help. I'm assuming since you asked the question, your parents aren't much of a resource for you. Most new parents have their own to help out and teach.
Second, talk to your pediatrician. Now, there are some great books out there about stages and expectations for a certain age. However, as all children are different (even the ones out of a mother's own body), each child progresses differently. If your child is ahead or behind the curve, don't gloat or fret. Your pediatrician sees so many children in a year, s/he'd be able to tell you if something is wrong.
Last, you need to find resources in your community. Infant parenting classes will do you a world of good and will not only show you what to expect over the next three-to-five years (up to school age, when you tend to move into a new type of parenting class), it will give you help learning to play intelligently with your child so you maximize your child's mental growth. Check for parenting classes in your community on the web by looking up your city or county and the words "parenting classes."
I've taken several, and they are a lifesaver when you're not sure, not to mention they're a great way of meeting people, and once you understand your child care resources in your community -- like playgroups, support groups, and even toy lending libraries.
Hope this helped!
2006-11-28 10:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jess B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given that there are millions of uninsured in the United States, I'm going to assume you are one of those, therefore you don't have a pediatrician. What you can do is call your nearest department of social and health services. There they have what is called "child protective services" and they will help you get set up with assistance. I would also recommend calling the nearest hospital emergency department. They should be more than willing to offer assistance as well. I work in a hospital myself so I can tell you personally they will be able to help.
P.S. When you call the hospital be sure to tell them exactly what is going on. Say, "I have a five month old baby and I don't know how to take care of it. Can I please bring it in?" Call 911 if you don't have a car. When you get there ask if they have a social worker available.
2006-11-28 10:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jane D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,I am a mother of two and one on the way, taking care of children can be a big task and very stressful.Is your child always crying maybe it's because you spoiled the child at its earlier age.Now it's time to break the routine and set a routine you can handle like finding something for the baby to enjoy.While you take care of yourself and things around the house the baby can listen to music and dance.
2006-11-28 10:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is the baby fussy thats normal its ok just love the baby and fed her/him change his/her diper and hold the baby people say you can hold a baby to much i don't think so that is the bonding time good luck oh if you have any questions you can ask ur doc, other parents, their are book, and you can look it up on the web good luck
2006-11-28 10:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by ASHLEY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love. After that you can get resources from the pediatricians, books, videos, the web, experienced parents....it's all out there for the taking.
2006-11-28 10:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look for a parenting class. Churches, hospitals, and schools have these and will be glad to help. Call on an older member of your family to help you learn. Remember to love, love, love.
2006-11-28 10:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Dimomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pediatrician needed!
2006-11-28 10:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by mommy of two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it cries, either feed it, change its diaper, hold it, or put it to bed. How did it survive 5 months with you if you don't know how to care for it?
2006-11-28 10:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my god! You need to talk to your pediatricition and call your mom to help or friends who have babies.
2006-11-28 10:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by sunshineprincess032003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your pediatrician!
2006-11-28 10:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋